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Another way to save money on a reception, even if you are hosting a dinner affair, is to book everything with a hotel or a restaurant. Many hotels and high-end restaurants offer an all-inclusive wedding package (e.g., tables, cutlery, room set-up fees, meals and servers) that is both easy and affordable to organize. Rather than searching and paying for individual vendors (such as caterers, servers, etc.), the hotel takes care of it all for you. An added bonus is that you will only have one bill to pay and you will know exactly how much everything will cost (i.e., no surprise vendor expenses), which makes budgeting and paying wedding bills much easier.

Guest List
This is a no-brainer. If you want to save money, then don't plan a huge wedding. Keep your guest list to close friends and family. Don't feel obliged to invite your future mother-in-law's colleagues. And don't feel compelled to invite anyone that you haven't spoken to in the last five years. This is a special day and you want to be surrounded by people whom you really care about. If you haven't taken the time to keep in touch with someone in the past, then why would you invite him/her to your wedding? Remember that your costs increase with each additional guest - everything from an additional invitation to the extra catering costs. To compile your guest list, begin with a list of everyone that you might consider inviting to your wedding and then cut it down by at least 25%. If you are still over budget, then cut the list by another 25%. Keep paring your list down until you have a manageable amount of guests.

Postage
To avoid paying for extra postage, make sure that your invitations are standard letter size. To save additional money, skip the traditional self-addressed, postage-paid RSVP cards and ask guests to RSVP via phone or email. Eliminating the bulky RSVP cards and their accompanying envelopes will also reduce the weight of your invitations, which ensures that you don't pay extra postage for any extra weight. While you are at it, skip any unnecessary inserts, inner envelopes and blotter papers. Historically, these were included because the ink dried slowly and often smudged or ruined the invitations. Laser printers have effectively eliminated this risk.

Alcohol

Have a cash bar or skip the alcohol altogether and host a dry wedding. You can serve a nice sparkling beverage for toasting.

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We were torn because the cost of a full open bar could be huge. Instead, we opted to offer beer, wine and non-alcoholic drinks at no cost & had if people wanted to have a mixed drink then they would pay for it. I think that people appreciated the options.
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I agree with some things in this article. I plan on getting married within the next 2 years and my future husband and I will be paying for everything. Nothing wrong in looking for a few cost saving tips. This article had a few good ideas. For example, a brunch or a cocktail reception will help cut cost. Getting married near the Christmas holiday will help save money for flowers at the church. Going to AC Moore or Michael's and printing your own invitations is another example to save money. However, I think that is is very distasteful to offer a cash bar. People will be coming from out of town and everyone is likely to give a gift. How can you ask this and then turn around and nickle and dime your guests for drinks??? I've been to TONS of weddings, both black tie and fire hall and NEVER have I attended a cash bar wedding. Instead of an extravagant open bar, a champagne toast and beer/wine should be offered.
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"It will also ensure that the photographer doesn't go picture crazy and charge you extra for unwanted shots." What?!?!?! What the heck is this writer talking about. Most pro photographers are shooting digital, and average 50 to 100 shots an hour. Their job IS to go overboard taking pictures because they have tons of memory and/or film to do so. Photographers don't charge by quantity of pictures anyway, but rather how many hours you book them. The part about the reception is somewhat good info. If you want to save money, book your photographer for more time earlier in the day...e.g. bridal prep, formal pictures, and ceremony. Streamline the reception events. Have introductions, cake cutting and first dance all right at the top. Have speeches during the salad/soup time. If you front load the major reception "events" in the first 60 to 90 minutes, then it is not necessary to keep your photographer on through the entire night. This also allows your reception to turn into more of a natural party after the "events" have happened. After a certain point in the night, after folks have had several visits to the bar, people usually don't look their best anyway. Snapshots by friends are fine for the later part of the night. I don't understand why places like this try to give tips for saving money with the photographer....he or she is the one preserving and documenting the event for your family history, and this is pretty much the lasting thing of your wedding....anyway, if you want to shorten the time of hours needed, shorten the reception coverage, but make sure you have a pro for the ceremony and formals. Everyone underestimates the complexities of shooting a wedding...knowing what to expect, how to react, and be prepared for split second changes, reactions etc. Everyone knows somebody who got a co-worker, friend or relative to take pictures instead of hiring a professional. No matter how great their artistic hobby photography work is, there is no way the will know how to be prepared for and know what to expect for 6 to 12 hours of nearly continuous shooting.
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Tue, Jan.29th 2008
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Joe - that's bs. I'd rather save some cash than blow $30k on flowers and stuff. There are ways to save cash and still have a great party. And besides PLENTY of people have a cash bar.
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I agree thats tacky who wants a cash bar at a weddeng thats aweful and the disposable camera thing is ok for fun but people want nice shots by a professional its a wedding it happens once and non alcoholc weddings thats a horrible idea for sure what a boring party, its like a freaking 12 year olds birthday party.
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Mon, Dec.31st 2007
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I was very surprised that you'd advocate cash-bar or, the horror, a non-alcoholic reception! I think, in the evening with dinner, you have to provide at least unlimited complimentary beer and wine, unless you have religious reasons. Guests like to drink and it seems tacky otherwise... In addition, while I understand the idea of reducing the cost of photography, the whole disposable-cameras-on-the-tables idea is so hackneyed and in my experience doesn't really produce fantastic shots... just my two cents

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