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the prenuptial agreement [Page 1 of 3]

We, at GroomGroove.com, are fairly certain that Donald and Melania Trump (pictured here in all their...splendor) have entered into a prenuptial agreement. But for mere mortals like you and the authors of GroomGroove.com, nothing can kill romance faster than the words "prenuptial agreement" (also affectionately known as a prenup). Before you decide to shelve the idea, you might want to consider some of the advantages of having such an agreement before leaping into marriage.

The actual agreement is a contract between two people about to wed that
outlines how assets will be distributed in the event of divorce or death. The notion of a prenup is not new. In fact, it has existed for thousands of years in some form or another, particularly among royalty in European and Asian societies who needed to protect their family’s wealth and namesake. However, you don’t need to be rich and famous to need a prenuptial agreement.

Why You Need a Prenuptial Agreement
We know that it is hard to think of divorce when you’re thinking of making a lifelong commitment. It even seems self-defeating. But the truth is that divorce is a reality for many couples. We have all heard the startling statistics: one in three first marriages end in divorce and fifty percent of second or third marriages hit the skids.

New York-based matrimonial lawyer, Harry Issler, says that a prenup serves more than one purpose. "A prenuptial agreement," Issler notes,"is protective of one's assets, it avoids subsequent controversy, and is helpful in revealing the financial condition of one's spouse-to-be."


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lady doctor
Wed, Aug.26th 2009
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i agree with mayflower mama. She has good points on the pre-nup being a litmus test. Thing is, it's still hard to bring up the subject of a pre-nup. Any suggestions?
Mayflower Mama
Thu, Aug.13th 2009
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Actually you need to look at this entirely differently. A pre nup demonstrates good faith, not bad. It says you want your beloved, not his/her money. Wealthy families, like ours, are thrilled to have men and women marry into it who make it clear up front they love our children...and aren't angling for millions of our children's inherited wealth. All wealthy families understand and appreciate this. As a result, we welcome these new sons and daughters who are not golddiggers with enthusiasm and appreciation--and reward them financially all their lives for having integrity rather than greed. I have urged my own children to gladly sign pre nups to show their fiancee/fiance's and their families that they want the person, not the fortune. BTW, I have NEVER heard of a single bride or groom whining over a prenup except those who were golddiggers--never! The mere fact that a man or woman doesn't want to sign one means he or she does in fact have his eye on the other person's money. What you earn together in your life as a couple is "joint" money--this should be enough to divide down the road if your marriage breaks up. I love prenups as a litmus test of who is marrying for money. It's the same concept as penniless brides/grooms insisting on lavish weddings paid for by the other family--why not wear a sign, "I GOT A RICH ONE, YA'LL!" Revolting.
Todd
Tue, Nov.13th 2007
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I don't know if Trump has a prenup, but his wife is hot

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