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[Page 1 of 1] Grooms now have a diamond engagement ring calculator. Courtesy of GroomGroove.com, they can enter their salary information and with a click of a button, figure out how much DeBeers wishes they would spend on their bride's diamond engagement ring! Where did the two months of salary idea come from?
From our research, GroomGroove.com understands that DeBeers wanted to bring diamonds to the masses, rather than have them be for a select few. Accordingly, the price of diamonds was set at approximately two months of salary, which is somewhat tied to inflation. Diamonds, just like your marriage, are an investment, and have been an investment device for several thousand years. Hard, durable and used to mine for other minerals, diamonds are generally quite rare (although they are not the rarest of gemstones). This, coupled with cartelization by the producers and resellers, keeps diamond prices very high. As a result, it will cost a groom at least $1000 to purchase a diamond of decent cut, clarity, color and carat. Of course, a $1000 diamond engagement ring will likely be lacking in two or three of the four C's. Accordingly, a groom is likely to spend at least $2,500 on his bride's engagement ring. So just how much is two months salary? While there is no real answer, we believe two months' salary refers to your gross salary, and not your net salary. (ie. the amount of money you make before taxes and deductions). Here are some sample salaries and diamond engagement ring cost equivalents: If you earn... $30,000: tradition states you're on the hook for a $5,000 diamond engagement ring. $50,000: rampant advertising suggests you buy a $8,333 rock. $80,000: say goodbye to $14,167 on that piece of ice. $100,000: pray that for $16,667 she sticks around for a long time to come. And... If you earn $100 billion dollars, or the approximate Gross Domestic Product of New Zealand, you're looking at dropping $16 billion dollars. On the bright side, however, you should be able to get a good quality cut, carat, color, clarity and cardiac arrest at that price! [Page 1 of 1]------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Nik
Buying an engagement ring for more than a $1000 is stupid, your are getting her another one soon enough any way. I agree w/ several others, if she demands a huge diamond, DUMP HER, you will never be able to impress her.
Stephanie
My husband spent a good bit on my ring only to have it stolen out of his car. I was really upset! Then we had to come back and buy another ring. So when it was all said and done my ring cast almost 4 months salary. But we wanted something that would last a life time. i didn't want to upgrade in 10 years i want to keep the ring he gave me for the rest of my life. Its so worth it!
Joe
Don't even buy a Diamond people. They are useless.
mike
I ended up doing something a bit different that may or may not make sense... I found a respected jeweler who does custom work, and designed her engagement ring with the help of the in house designers...
instead of picking a ring based on the price... i built a ring based on the specifics that I wanted and I thought she wanted and it ended up being much less expensive than what i was prepared to spend... this was partially because she wanted a sapphire and not a diamond
Bruce
I am all for blowing the big one for my lady, but this business of..."you're paying for a fantasy, not a ring, and this is the one time in your life that you should step up to the plate and truly deliver because it is so rare in this world that any of us ever get to make or have a dream come true."
Crock of crap is right...a person must lead a pretty empty and unfullfilling life to think the fantasy of a big diamond ring and expensive wedding will make them happy. If that's the case, you're not with the right person so keep lookin.
Shaun
Some folks told me, "Spend $1000 more than you feel comfortable spending"... that turned out to be good advice, I think, since I'm a bit of a cheapskate and had started in my head at 6 weeks salary and moved down from there... that extra $1000 went a long way in getting a beautiful ring. You can get a Very nice ring for a lot less than 2 months gross income... I took my sister-in-law and she was great... knew how to make them show her lots of different looks, etc... in the end I picked it out, of course.
Alisha
At first when my fiance surprised me with my ring, I was disappointed. The main diamond was too small, I thought, and I had wanted a solitaire while I got a ring with many small diamonds. I thought he was cheaping out. It would have been nice to get a huge diamond, but you know what? I got over it. Plus now we have a lot more money for our honeymoon and for our downpayment. Don't listen to the 2 month salary thing. You'll be wasting your money.
joan
when my husband and i first got engaged, i decided to put away my girlish fantasies of having a big fancy engagement ring and a big fancy wedding in favor of things that are "worthwhile". everyone was happy that i was such a practical bride and i agreed with them. but, although i love my husband more than anything and we have a wonderful marriage, i always regretted it. where did all that money we were so smartly saving go? a laptop, clothes, a nespresso machine, restaurants, a sofa. all nice things, but none compare. the best things in life are those moments that are completely unpractical, we all deal with boring routine for the rest of our lives and especially once we are married we no longer can hope for that mysterious hero/heroine to pop out of the blue on a white horse and rescue us---when we decide to marry someone, we have to become his/her hero and hope we get the same in return. in retrospect, i think if you have the opportunity to make a dream come true for someone you love (assuming that, though it will set you back considerably, it will not put you on welfare) you should absolutely do it. you only get to propose once, you only get to go through a wedding once, and even if a diamond ring seems like a silly extravagance and it seems ridiculous to pay that much for a tiny little rock as opposed to a car, or a flat screen tv, or whatever else---believe me, that ring lasts forever and you only have one chance to make a woman really feel like she is worth more than anything in the world. you're paying for a fantasy, not a ring, and this is the one time in your life that you should step up to the plate and truly deliver because it is so rare in this world that any of us ever get to make or have a dream come true.
Since your not going to sell this ring ANYWAYS, this is a crock of crap. It's a token of your relationship, and nothing more. Get a ring that she likes, and try to save your money for something worthwhile, like food or a house. Or a charity.
Brett
I understand where this is coming from, but holy cow! If I spend that much, we'll be honeymooning in Indiana!
Rob
Cool! Very cool.
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