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should the groom ask for permission? [Page 1 of 1]

It is customary for the groom to ask the father-of-the-bride for his daughter's hand in marriage. Now, we said it's customary, but it's also a bit antiquated, formal and possibly misogynistic. It does make you appear to be more of a gentleman, albeit a gentleman from around 1952.  

Is your bride a piece of property?

Part of the history of asking for your daughter's "hand in marriage" is that, according to Biblical scripture, there used to be a price paid for the daughter of a gentleman. The idea was that the woman would no longer be a working member of the father's family. (!) The price was measured in other property, paid to the father. In some places, the tradition still exists, particularly in parts of Africa where not only is a "bride price" paid (not to be confused with a dower), but the woman may be subjected to the highly nefarious practice of female genital mutilation. So, yeah, even today this practice is no laughing matter.

Back in the 21st century, it's your call as to whether you want to do this at all. You may consider asking your girlfriend's father for his blessing, rather than permission. But the guys at GroomGroove.com have got a better idea. The smart groom should consider having this conversation with his girlfriend's parents (both father and mother) rather than following last century's rules. That's an appropriate approach, and going to win you some serious bonus points. In fact, both you and your girlfriend, together, could approach both sets of parents.

Here's how to do it:

  • Call your bride's parents in advance, to tell them you'd like to meet, privately
  • Meet with both her mom and dad
  • Meet in person, if possible
  • Tell them you love their daughter and you'll treat her with the respect that she deserves
  • Bloody-well believe what you just said
  • Ask that they bless your union

Of course, they're going to know that this is coming, but that's all part of the tension building, right?

A recent groom in an interview with GroomGroove.com, Jared Price of New York stated, "It actually turned out to be more awkward than I thought it would be." Jared, a blue-blooded American guy was asking his Italian father-in-law to be. "Being from Italy," Price says, "they're a bit more traditional and so I thought it would be a good idea. They don't hide their emotions, so when I asked and her father blankly stared and said, 'Well, you'll have to ask her...' there was either something lost in translation or the idea that he was somewhat cool to the idea. I guess my advice is be prepared for that." (Gulp.)

Regardless of whether you follow tradition to a T, take up our idea, or forgo the concept completely, you're ahead of the game by thinking of whether to ask your pop-in-law for your girlfriend's hand in marriage.

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Sat, Nov.14th 2015
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Mon, Nov.2nd 2015
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Tue, Oct.27th 2015
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Sat, Oct.24th 2015
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Having my left ex lover back has been the greatest thing that has happened to me, i want to share my testimony of how the love of my life come back, i got my ex lover of my life back, am happy to tell the people in the world there is a real spell caster online and is powerful and genuine, His name is Dr.Ofemo spell caster, He helped me recently to reunite my relationship with my boyfriend who dumped me, When i contacted Dr Ofemo he cast a love spell for me and my boyfriend who said he doesn't have anything to do with me again called me and started begging me. To anyone who is reading this article and needs any help Dr Ofemo can also offer any types of help like Reuniting of marriage and relationship, Curing of all types of Diseases,HERPES CURE OR CANCER OR HIV&AIDS, Court Cases,Lottery winning, Pregnancy Spell, Spiritual protection and lot's more thanks once again wonderful man,email drofemospelltempl@gmail.com my life all i want to say is thank you to Dr Ofemo for helping me so if you are suffering and need a change of life i will advice you to contact them now at their via: drofemospelltemple@yahoo.com or his web/site: http://greatofemospelltemple.webs.com/ or cell number +2348163387496 his web/site http://drofemospelltemple.wix.com/dr-ofemo
Bernice Lees
Thu, Oct.22nd 2015
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A very big problem occurred in my family 4 months ago,between me and my husband. So terrible that he took the case to court for a divorce. He said that he never wanted to stay with me again,and that he didnít love me anymore. So he packed out of the house to where i do not know about and made me and my children passed through severe pain. I tried all possible means to get him back. After much begging,but all to no avail / Success. And he confirmed it that he has made his decision,and he never wanted to see me again. So on one afternoon when i came back from the house of my best friend that know how to advise me very well. As i was coming back from her place, I saw an old friend of mine who asked of my husband. So i also explained every thing to her just the way i did to my best friend on what happened between me and my husband. So she told me that the only way i can get my husband back is to visit a spell caster. Because it has really worked for her. As a Christian i never believed in spell casting,but during all this problem and letting the love of my life go just like that and the father to my lovely kids i had no other choice than to follow her advice. Then she gave me the email address of the spell caster whom she visited to solve her own marriage issues also. At this time i was full with so much grief and confusion on how this can really be true to the extent that i have to ask my friend so many question like if this is not to harm or have an effect on my life and that of my lovely children after it has been done. But she replied with so much seriousness by telling me that there is no harm and there is no side effect on the spell casting, That is just to get back my husband for my kids and also for him to love me like never before, That the spell caster even made his friend win lottery two days back, That there is noting / problem anyone find his or herself that this great spell caster can not solve. After her explanation that there is noting that will happen to us other than to just get back my husband i requested on how i could contact this great and powerful spell caster that she is talking about. She gave his email address to me that i wrote down on a jotter and when i got home i emailed the spell caster with the following email: ajayiololo@yahoo.com after some few time that same day i received a form that i will fill and return to him. After that i was asked to get some materials that will be needed to cast this spell that if i can not provide them i will send the cost which was what i did just to see the outcome of the spell casting. And before i send the cost of the materials to him he assured me that even that same day if he get the money for the materials or the materials from my end that my lover / husband will return back in the next 4 to 5 hours time same-day after the spell has been casted with the materials he will get with the money that i will send down since i could not get the materials on my own to send to him to do the spell casting. The spell caster assured me that i will get my husband back after that process. What an amazing statement!! I never believed, So surprisingly after the 4 to 5 hours he told me i will get my husband back things changed in my life. My husband who has not call me for the past four months called me on the phone to inform me that he was coming back home to take me out. So Amazing!! So that was how he came back the next day with lots of love and joy,and he apologized for his mistake and for the pain he caused me and my children. Then from that day,our relationship / marriage was now stronger than how it were before,by the help of a spell caster. So i will advice you all out there to kindly send your contact to : ajayiololo@yahoo.com if you are in any problem like this or you have any problem related to ďbringing your ex back, Wanting a good job in fact any problem you think you are passing through that do not have solution just send your email with complains to him and he will help you out perfectly well without disappointment. All thanks to the great spell caster called AJAYI OLOLO WHICH USES THE FOLLOWING EMAIL: ajayiololo@yahoo.com for bringing back my husband and also for bringing great joy to my family once again. Dr Ajayi Ololo I ascribe praises to your name and your name alone.He told me to also add to this testimony that i want to tell to world to tell all those that want to contact him for any help to include the country name they are from and there direct personal phone number to reach them.
TESTIMONY ON EX LOVER
Mon, Oct.12th 2015
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Hello My Good People, American is changing for the best i can say this because the gay community just literally got liberated i mean we can officially get married and be part of the the American society. When i heard the news i was filled with joy i mean me and my fiance the man i have always can finally own our marriage certificate in Georgia.It was not always right for us if you know what i mean. Before we got married in California ,he was not in love with me or i would say he was in love with me and lost for another guy and it was frustrating.We were off and on and mostly times our break up was always bad it always ends with huge fight. I loved him and wanted to be all his for the rest of my life but he did not see that he wanted to have me to himself and still see other guy i mean who does that? He was the queen of heart breaker and also was perfect when he wants to mend the heart. This was why i also went back to him no matter what always led to our ugly break up. But this madness just kept going on over and over with us and like i said i was sick of it. You canít hurt me over and over again and still come back to me i mean i am not a play thing you use and drop when you tired. Judge me if you will it not like i care because all my life people have always said trash about me but if i had paid their attentions i would not have been this happy. After searching for means to make him commit to me even taking him with me to couple counseling i decide i contact a spell caster called Otis Darko it was just an arbitrary choice i mean, i told myself if he canít help me i will move on with my life maybe the one i clam to be the love of my life was not the one after all. Otis Darko is an angel sent from a place i donít know.He save me and made me he happiest man on earth or more preferable the happiest gay man on earth . I donít know how he did it just after he help me cast a love spell, every pain that i was going through was lifted of my shoulder like magic my lover became the queen of hearts i would say he became mine and loved me like his life depended on it.When i first contacted Otis Darko, he told me to come down to his temple so i may witness the greatness of his work we got the materials we used for the spell together and just after four day i say the greatness of his power.But i spent a lot Because i had to travel all the way to Africa.It will be cheaper for me to have had him get the materials form me but i was foolish. But its amazing i still got my heart desire. He also told me that the gay community will soon be free and in just two months his prophecy has come to pass. Who wants to tell me he is not great contact i you will here you will not regret your decision use thus address otisdarko60@yahoo.com.......HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS: otisdarko60@yahoo.com
WINNING THE LOTTERY HERE
Mon, Oct.12th 2015
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Greetings To Everyone, This is my testimony on how I won $3,471,009 million William Deluca, from USA I want to use this opportunity to thank Great DR OTIS DARKO for helping me to win the lottery of $66 million lottery ticket.I have been playing the lottery for the past 5 years now and I have never won. Ever since then I have not been able to win and I was so upset and I need help to win the lottery so I decided to go online and search for help, there I saw so many good testimony about this man called Great DR OTIS DARKO of how he have cast lucky spell lotto for people to win the lottery. I contacted him also and told him I want to win a lottery, he cast a spell for me which I used and I played and won $3,471,009 million dollars. I am so grateful to this man, just in-case you also need him to help you win, you can contact him through his email: otisdarko60@yahoo.com and he will surely help you......This is my testimony page as you can go through this it now on how I was given the check OK: http://www.megamillions.com/winners-gallery/man-finds-out-he%E2%80%99s-a-millionaire-while-buying-valentine%E2%80%99s-surprise-for-wife . ... HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS: otisdarko60@yahoo.com as he is so powerful and also he has solution to other problems you must have been facing in life also.....
LOVE SPELL HERE
Mon, Oct.12th 2015
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I am just another person that as i would say, the ' GREAT SPELL CASTER OTIS DARKO ' has helped word can not describe all he did for me i would rather you all that would read this were all in my life when all what he did for me materialized because only then will you really believe what i am talking about. I was not born with a royal blood and i do not even come from a decent family by decent i mean a family with wealth and all that and it was more than normal that my relationship with a royal blood will cause a lot of feud in both my home and that of my fiance. Yes he from a royal family but i will not mentions anything else in other to avoid scandal. We meant on a faithful Sunday in church and just like that he swept me off my feet i knew he was the prince but that was not while i fell for him it was more like i fell for him because he seem calm and always at else with everything it was like he did not even see himself as a prince. May be you may think its because it was not next in line but when i got to really know him, i saw that he was just an unembellished person that wanted to live his life in peace. It all start with us being friend and then on every night of Christmas 2004 that he spent at my house he kissed me and believe me in my mind i was Cinderella. It was like my heart was going to burst in flame i never knew i had all those feelings locked away in my heart but he broke the chain that was holding it back with just one kiss. Even when he wanted to be with me he family was again it and it was always like i was the root of what ever problem he was going through with his family. I thought to myself, i can not be the one to take the peace he had i felt he was better and at else without me. We where always of and on and all the while he waited for me with the biggest of hope that i will come back. I knew he was madly in love with me as i was in love with him but being with him was a problem as much as not being with him. His family won't let him be with with me. They opposed our relationship for nine years we where in love but unhappy our relationship was going no where with all the feud. I could no longer be the one an entire family hate and the same time be in love with a guy that his family did not want me. I some how some way got to know about OTIS DARKO a spell cast a great one at that. All i want was to be with my now fiance forever and to be loved and cared for by his family just as it suppose to be. I asked him to help me make my heart desires materialize because i saw a lot of testimonies on the internet about him and the number of people he helped everybody and every blog and forum had his name and his work. I needed to be one of the people he helped. After a lot of conversation he agreed to help me and asked that i get some materials he listed for me. I could get them but i would have made too many people ask question and it needed to be done in a very low profile so i wired the total cost to him so that he can get the materials i needed for the spell and there by avoid exposing myself over what should have be done in secret until the spell process was completed. Yes OTIS DARKO helped me with he spell and he send me a package containing what i can not disclose all i can say is that it was the result of the spell he helped me cast and he gave instruction on how i would use it to make the spell effective. I did all he asked of me and just like he promise me at the beginning, the spell made my fiance entire family love respect and treat me like their own child. To me i would say that OTIS DARKO was my fairy godmother because maybe right now my life would have be miserable basically because i would have had to let go of the love of my life because no one or more like his family would not approve our union. Contact OTIS DARKO because you will only be helping yourself and yourself only use this email as contact otisdarko60@yahoo.com
LOVE SPELL
Fri, Oct.2nd 2015
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Midred Jackson Says Am giving this testimony cos am happy My name is Midred Jackson from Michigan I never believed in love spells or magic until i met this spell caster once. when i went to Africa in June 28th 2015 this year on a business summit. i ment a man called DR OTIS DARKO. He is powerful he could help you cast a spells to bring back my loveís gone,misbehaving lover looking for some one to love you, bring back lost money and magic money spell or spell for a good job.iím now happy & a living testimony cos the man i had wanted to marry left me 3 weeks before our wedding and my life was upside down cos our relationship has been on for 2 yearsÖ i really loved him, but his mother was against me and he had no good paying job. so when i met this spell caster, i told him what happened and explained the situation of things to him..at first i was undecided,skeptical and doubtful, but i just gave it a try. and in 6 days when i returned to taxes, my boyfriend (is now my husband ) he called me by himself and came to me apologizing that everything had been settled with his mom and family and he got a new job interview so we should get married..i didnít believe it cos the spell caster only asked for my name and my boyfriends name and all i wanted him to doÖ well we are happily married now and we are expecting our little kid,and my husband also got a new job and our lives became much better. in case anyone needs the spell caster for some help, email address: otisdarko60@yahoo.com GREAT OTIS DARKO I thank you very much thank you in 1000000 times.. if not you I would have been losted and wasted thank you. Email Him Through his email address... otisdarko60@yahoo.com please make sure you contact him for any financial difficulties okay.. What a powerful man such as DR OTIS DARKO.. he is so much powerful..\\ email him for any difficulties.. otisdarko60@yahoo.com................... YOU CAN ALSO ADD US UP ON WHATSAPP USING THIS MOBILE NUMBER:+2348077526136
WINNING LOTTERY HERE
Fri, Oct.2nd 2015
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Greetings To Everyone, This is my testimony on how I won $3,471,009 million William Deluca, from USA I want to use this opportunity to thank Great DR OTIS DARKO for helping me to win the lottery of $66 million lottery ticket.I have been playing the lottery for the past 5 years now and I have never won. Ever since then I have not been able to win and I was so upset and I need help to win the lottery so I decided to go online and search for help, there I saw so many good testimony about this man called Great DR OTIS DARKO of how he have cast lucky spell lotto for people to win the lottery. I contacted him also and told him I want to win a lottery, he cast a spell for me which I used and I played and won $3,471,009 million dollars. I am so grateful to this man, just in-case you also need him to help you win, you can contact him through his email: otisdarko60@yahoo.com and he will surely help you......This is my testimony page as you can go through this it now on how I was given the check OK: http://www.megamillions.com/winners-gallery/man-finds-out-he%E2%80%99s-a-millionaire-while-buying-valentine%E2%80%99s-surprise-for-wife . ... HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS: otisdarko60@yahoo.com as he is so powerful and also he has solution to other problems you must have been facing in life also.....
Fri, Oct.2nd 2015
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I am another individual that OTIS DARKO awesome has reached. A lot of us have desired love, wealth, luck and all but it always a step too far to reach or the chance never come our way and then it all became a dream nothing more that just a dream. OTIS DARKO the greatest enchanter i have ever known because he is the only one i know helped transform my dream into reality he helped me with an enchantment that made the one that i love find his love for me after wait forever in love with him. We've been best friend even before we could speak , we played together got in trouble together made silly promises at least we kept it but one i could not keep one. I could not stay friends with him forever, i didn't want to just be his friend i wanted more i wanted him to love just as loved him but he saw me as just a friend or he didn't want to admit he was also in love with me because it was obvious we sync perfectly made the same gestures, always in each other arm we were like lover that don't make love . I was always a step behind when it came to letting him know how and what i felt about him. I wanted him to be the one to tell to say to me that he loved me and has always did. I wish i didn't wait for him i wish i told him maybe it wouldn't have took so long to be with him in first place. Through out our high school and collage years he was the guy every girl wanted to date he was the guy every wanted to give up their v card for and all the while i was the best friend of the guy i was in love with the one he tell all the nasty things he's been doing with them. As hard as it was for me i couldn't complain because we weren't dating even when i wanted it so bad. I always found myself wishing i was the girls on the other side. We shared everything about our life and even told each other thing we never told those we dated. I couldn't keep a stable relationship with any guy they all thought we hang out too much each other and i care for him more. They all left because they knew i was in love with him even when i tried to hide it always surfaced. My love life was a total mess and at first, it was really not a big deal because i thought with each man that come into my life a part of what i felt for him will fade away but it wasn't the case. I found myself not being about to love them enough or always comparing them with him that always led to the death of the relationship. I knew i had to let him know i was in love with him and i knew it was going ruin a our friendship and also his relationship. I hated myself because she was a nice girl but i wanted to know if i had a chance, if we loves me just as much as i loved him but he never told me he was too mad with me for what i did not until OTIS DARKO helped me unveil it. I kinda picked the worst time to let him know about my feeling because he was engaged and i made his fiancťe call it off. And for two years we didn't speak he told me he never wanted to see me again and that i was dead to him. I was once again alone with my feeling all my effort to restore what i broke was in vain. I was happy the wedding was called off but was not so much because i didn't get him instead he hated me for what i did. I was really really confused i wanted to stop loving i needed to get him off my mind and over. I was on that quest when i found OTIS DARKO on the Internet read about his work with some people and how they all got their heart desire. I contacted him with this email:otisdarko60@yahoo.com that they left on the Internet he told me the spirit had already told him that i was going to contact him. I only told him about how i was in love with him and what happened when i told him about my feelings but he knew we've best friends since we were kids that i did not tell him he reveal something only Ryan and i Knew yeah that is his name. OTIS DARKO told me that Ryan was always in love me like i loved him but he was unaware of his feeling. I asked him to help with with an enchantment that will make him love me and spend the rest of his life with me. All he used for the process was the materials he asked me to provide and after four days he sent a package via courier service which i paid for with content based on the enchantment he had done for me. I did not pay him anything for what he did for he did not ask me for anything. I followed the instruction i was given and just like told me Ryan was my to love again and i was his to love just like i wanted. Everything happened like the movie only that it was not like it. I mean he was in another state but he came down to let me know he now knew he was in love with and he wanted to love and just love me. It was the best moment of my life i never felt happier than how i felt that day. Just for the record we have being together for a year and six months now and still strong i can even sense a proposer it was one of the thing otisdarko60@yahoo.com told me will happen. CONTACT HIM NOW:otisdarko60@yahoo.com
HOW I GOT MY EX BACK WITH SPEL
Fri, Oct.2nd 2015
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Attention: We all have different reasons why those of us who contacted Otis Darko to help us make our faithful to us some of us did it for lover, because of their children or health condition or even because they wanted not to be alone. For me it was non of those though i love my husband and donít want to raise our teens alone . The reason why i contacted Otis Darko to help me with a spell truly was because my husband was running for one of the seats in the Riksdag,the national legislative body of Sweden. Now i am not going to say if he won or under what party for security reasons i did not ask for a spell to make him win or something NO i just asked for a spell to make him stop being a chronic Womanizer it was going to affect his campaign. I have lived with him for 20 years and after countless occasions of catching him cheating on me i have come to live with him like that though it hurts to death. I wish i knew all along all those years about Otis the Great spell caster maybe my life would not have been this way. Like i was saying, His womanizing behavior got him into a lot of trouble and if any of those stories where to hit the press it would have destroyed his life and this political career and probably landed him in jail. With all the advise from me and his advisories of his campaigning team it was still not enough to bring him to caution. I went to the extreme to make sure he stops willingly or unwillingly that is i meant with some of his lover and asked to pay them off but they were not ready to let go it. I think he offered them something more that money that even with the amount i offered them, they all refused and believe me it was very surprising and they will turn down a large amount of money. We my husband got to know about it he mad mad at me and gave all sort of threats. I was confused and his opposition were digging to find dirt on him and still was so convinced that they will not find anything but they did only with no evidence that was how lucky we were. Right then i took matters in my hand and contacted Otis Darko with the email address i saw on the internet i contacted him and told him what i want him to do for me to make my husband be faithful to me till our dying day and make all those people looking for how to bring down my husband stop. OK note my husband is a very honest man who would not hurt a fly he was just careless and always picked the wrong kinds of woman that get him in trouble. Otis Darko asked that i provide 4 kind of item me being so careful employed expert to help me get those materials mailed them over to him. I sent a total some of 3000 dollars when converting from Swedish Krona to American dollars. And it much much cheaper if i had asked him to get them for me. But whats done is done. Just after four day sent me a package, not telling its content but is totally harmless and told me how to make the spell effective. I did as he told me and in two my husband somehow magically broke tires with all the women he was involved with i donít know how it happen and those people trying to kill his political ambition stopped immediately. I wish i knew this Great man all along my life would have been perfect. His campaign team did not understand how i did it and what i did they were just happy all the worse is past. What wow me the most about Otis Darko was that the told me the out come of the election before the election date last years because all this happened last year and just what he said will happen really came to pass. And again i canít give full info because of security reasons. I little advise for those that are going to contact him via this email: otisdarko60@yahoo.com if you are asked for material to do the spell donít go about it yourself Because you will waste a lot time and money on it and get to see asking him to get them for you with the total cost you wire to him will save you a lot. You have nothing be be afraid you can trust him with anything Because all he does is help people no matter how hard it may be.
GODBLESS OTIS DARKO
Fri, Oct.2nd 2015
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Hello My Good People, American is changing for the best i can say this because the gay community just literally got liberated i mean we can officially get married and be part of the the American society. When i heard the news i was filled with joy i mean me and my fiance the man i have always can finally own our marriage certificate in Georgia.It was not always right for us if you know what i mean. Before we got married in California ,he was not in love with me or i would say he was in love with me and lost for another guy and it was frustrating.We were off and on and mostly times our break up was always bad it always ends with huge fight. I loved him and wanted to be all his for the rest of my life but he did not see that he wanted to have me to himself and still see other guy i mean who does that? He was the queen of heart breaker and also was perfect when he wants to mend the heart. This was why i also went back to him no matter what always led to our ugly break up. But this madness just kept going on over and over with us and like i said i was sick of it. You canít hurt me over and over again and still come back to me i mean i am not a play thing you use and drop when you tired. Judge me if you will it not like i care because all my life people have always said trash about me but if i had paid their attentions i would not have been this happy. After searching for means to make him commit to me even taking him with me to couple counseling i decide i contact a spell caster called Otis Darko it was just an arbitrary choice i mean, i told myself if he canít help me i will move on with my life maybe the one i clam to be the love of my life was not the one after all. Otis Darko is an angel sent from a place i donít know.He save me and made me he happiest man on earth or more preferable the happiest gay man on earth . I donít know how he did it just after he help me cast a love spell, every pain that i was going through was lifted of my shoulder like magic my lover became the queen of hearts i would say he became mine and loved me like his life depended on it.When i first contacted Otis Darko, he told me to come down to his temple so i may witness the greatness of his work we got the materials we used for the spell together and just after four day i say the greatness of his power.But i spent a lot Because i had to travel all the way to Africa.It will be cheaper for me to have had him get the materials form me but i was foolish. But its amazing i still got my heart desire. He also told me that the gay community will soon be free and in just two months his prophecy has come to pass. Who wants to tell me he is not great contact i you will here you will not regret your decision use thus address otisdarko60@yahoo.com.......HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS: otisdarko60@yahoo.com
HOW I GOT MY EX
Fri, Oct.2nd 2015
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When i met my husband then it crystal clear to me that he was the man of my dream. When i looked at him, i saw perfection. He was tall, respectful, looked at me like i was the only one on earth i mean words cannot describe that moment that is the day we met. It lives on here in my head. I know i was not blind and i know there was nothing really to make me suspect he also like the company of men as well as women. Yes i mean we were sexually active just like every other normal couple who are in love. It never seem like he was avoiding me when i want to have sex like he always comes up with excuse no he was just like every other man. I only got to know when i was two years into our marriage. The first year was healthy for us i mean we were happy and had our first child. It was my sister who caught him passionately kissing another man in his car after spending all night together in the movie theater. He told me he was going out with friends for a drink or two. I was hurt because he was not honest with me and also was cheating on me. Even before i knew, this thing he had going on started before we got married at least he was honest about that. Hadn't been my sister, i would have been locked in the dark. I have nothing against same sex relationship but when you claim to love a woman and also want to be with a man it becomes a problem i mean you are either with one or the other. You can't be married to me and expect me to shear you with another be it a woman or a man. We promise we will stay together just us and not us with some one else. I gave him an ultimatum it was either me or his male love i was hoping his love for me will make him pick me but no he ended our marriage simply before he could not pick. H wanted it all i wished i never made him choose then. I was in a traumatized i could not understand how he could be so selfish i mean we have a son together you don't just walk out like that. I remember i even asked him to go ahead with relationship with his lover as long as he was here with me but then i realized i would be at the losing end in all ways. I was so much in love with him letting him go was not an option for me i mean i knew that if it wasn't him it was going to me no other. After months of trying and searching with no success to find a way to make him see i am more important than his lover i came across a lot of comments on the internet of how a spell caster Otis Darko and how he has help a lot of individual with relationship and life problems. I was skeptical about it but i thought giving it a try would not kill me. What can i say, my experience with Otis Darko was real, honest i mean everything that was said about him was nothing but all true. I shared my problem with him that is how my husband ended our marriage because i was not OK with him have a male lover even when we were married and what i needed him to do for me. All i had to get was the materials needed to caster the spell that was going to get me my husband. I could only find one of the spell materials but he help me get the rest with the total estimated cost i sent to him for help. I don't know how to explain what happen just after the spell process was concluded and made effective with the parcel he sent to me. I was like a fairy tale i mean i got my love back my family was whole again. My husband picked me he choose to be with me. It been more than six months now all i can see is a man loves and dedicate his self to me he goes every where with me aside work though yeah. Contact him here at otisdarko60@yahoo.com hope you all with similar problem get all help from Otis Darko also..... HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS : otisdarko60@yahoo.com
HOW MY MARRIAGE WAS SAVED
Fri, Oct.2nd 2015
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Upon all that i claim to know about this world and its forces,only recently i got to know that i really don't know anything about anything. Like this world is bigger and meaner that how we picture it ti be. I mean where your own sister can be sleeping with your husband with the intention of wanting to take your place and your family and still can say she loves you to to your face is pretty mean.I am glad I met OTIS DARKO a spell caster at the time i did because i would never had confirm my suspicion about my husband and my sister. He help me uncover the truth that was withheld form me with his spell and his advice on how to go about the issue and how to get back my husband and save my marriage. My husband unfaithfulness was not new to me, i knew he had affairs other ladies but he always came back to me no matter what he always did. As much as i could i tried a lot not to think about all he does because nothing hurts more than this, knowing that your husband is having an affair with someone else because she is younger or more sexy or thinks she is a better lover than you that bore his children but because you love him and know how much he loves you though in the worst way possible. We have been like this for six years now and wouldn't have been able to say i was the happiest woman alive because really as much as we are talking about happiness i never marriages had a happily ever after. Yeah some may say there is no such thing but believe me there is and OTIS DARKO helped me find it. I notice since our time together that my husband only get too careful when he is getting close to someone i may know or know most women know what i mean. Like he want to make you see he doesn't have anything connection to that person but act it too much to make you realize that something is actually going between them and the person in question. It was my secret to know what he is up too when he is around ladies i know or may have just for the first time. It how it rose my suspicion about himself and my sister. But my sister being smart knew i had my suspicion did all in her power to hide the truth from me. I hoped to the blue sea that i was wrong that that nothing was going on being that my suspicious heart was messing with my head. I could not confirm it but in my heart i knew they were having an affair. I did all the framing of question stuff about cheating spouse and asking if she could do that but really no one fall for that. I could not confront her when i knew nothing because growing up we learnt before point a finger at family you must to h***bent sure about the situation and i was not sure or at least i nothing really that told me my thought are true. All my effort went south and my private investigator got nothing at all don't know how that even happened. I explored all other option that failed also. But then ,for the first came across some comments in a lot of forums talking about the spell caster OTIS DARKO ( otisdarko60@yahoo.com ) and the things he had done to help people and how it all worked out for them, contact him and pleaded with him to help me out. I needed to know what my husband and sister were up to. He confirmed that they were not only having an affair but she wanted my husband to leave me to be with her leaving me her sister heart broken in so may ways. He told me how they met and where they met that made my private investigation fail. And upon what OTIS DARKO told me i cut and their affair was all out in the wind.It broke my heart to know my husband and mostly my sister could really get involved with themselves and mostly my sister i mean out of all the men in Chicago you pick your brother-in-law? i was hurt sad and mostly mad at my sister. Cos i love them both unconditionally how hard was it for them to love me back. Even with all that was going on my husband told me he was not sure if he still love me after 6 years o our marriage. I knew he was leaving me for my sister permanently he thought she was a better love than i was and there was nothing i could do about it at least that was what i thought. After so many hours of talking on the phone with OTIS DARKO tell him how i still want to save my marriage and wanted my husband to love me as i do him,he asked me put my hopes on him he was going to do a spell for me to fix all my problem. I provided some materials was needed for the spell as i was directed to do. He did the spell and i got a package from him its content was of how i as going to make the spell work and become effective. I follow every instruction and just after four day they ended their affair and grew this kind of hatred for themselves it was all over the place everyone could see what happened and as surprise as i was, i was also glad the spell also made my husband love be back selflessly just as did and still do. OTIS DARKO change my husband, made him mine again and help me fix my life. OTIS DARKO is my hero i mean i am forever in his debt but still he did not ask anything from me. Please Note all that was require of me was materials for the spell of which was able to get so he help me with the to cost i sent to without any form of persuasion. If you contact him for help maybe you will also need some materials for the spell. You can us this address to contact: otisdarko60@yahoo.com....
TESTIMONY ON EX LOVER
Fri, Oct.2nd 2015
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Hello My Good People, American is changing for the best i can say this because the gay community just literally got liberated i mean we can officially get married and be part of the the American society. When i heard the news i was filled with joy i mean me and my fiance the man i have always can finally own our marriage certificate in Georgia.It was not always right for us if you know what i mean. Before we got married in California ,he was not in love with me or i would say he was in love with me and lost for another guy and it was frustrating.We were off and on and mostly times our break up was always bad it always ends with huge fight. I loved him and wanted to be all his for the rest of my life but he did not see that he wanted to have me to himself and still see other guy i mean who does that? He was the queen of heart breaker and also was perfect when he wants to mend the heart. This was why i also went back to him no matter what always led to our ugly break up. But this madness just kept going on over and over with us and like i said i was sick of it. You canít hurt me over and over again and still come back to me i mean i am not a play thing you use and drop when you tired. Judge me if you will it not like i care because all my life people have always said trash about me but if i had paid their attentions i would not have been this happy. After searching for means to make him commit to me even taking him with me to couple counseling i decide i contact a spell caster called Otis Darko it was just an arbitrary choice i mean, i told myself if he canít help me i will move on with my life maybe the one i clam to be the love of my life was not the one after all. Otis Darko is an angel sent from a place i donít know.He save me and made me he happiest man on earth or more preferable the happiest gay man on earth . I donít know how he did it just after he help me cast a love spell, every pain that i was going through was lifted of my shoulder like magic my lover became the queen of hearts i would say he became mine and loved me like his life depended on it.When i first contacted Otis Darko, he told me to come down to his temple so i may witness the greatness of his work we got the materials we used for the spell together and just after four day i say the greatness of his power.But i spent a lot Because i had to travel all the way to Africa.It will be cheaper for me to have had him get the materials form me but i was foolish. But its amazing i still got my heart desire. He also told me that the gay community will soon be free and in just two months his prophecy has come to pass. Who wants to tell me he is not great contact i you will here you will not regret your decision use thus address otisdarko60@yahoo.com.......HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS: otisdarko60@yahoo.com
Vera Aniston
Mon, Sep.28th 2015
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I am another individual that Akpe Osilama awesome has reached. A lot of us have desired love, wealth, luck and all but it always a step too far to reach or the chance never come our way and then it all became a dream nothing more that just a dream. Akpe Osilama the greatest enchanter i have ever known because he is the only one i know helped transform my dream into reality he helped me with an enchantment that made the one that i love find his love for me after wait forever in love with him. The full details about how this man helped me on various sites that dont require short detail. Get help from him be sending email to /// chiefpriestakpeosilamaspellcast@yahoo.com
Vera Aniston
Mon, Sep.28th 2015
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I am another individual that Akpe Osilama awesome has reached. A lot of us have desired love, wealth, luck and all but it always a step too far to reach or the chance never come our way and then it all became a dream nothing more that just a dream. Akpe Osilama the greatest enchanter i have ever known because he is the only one i know helped transform my dream into reality he helped me with an enchantment that made the one that i love find his love for me after wait forever in love with him. We've been best friend even before we could speak , we played together got in trouble together made silly promises at least we kept it but one i could not keep one. I could not stay friends with him forever, i didn't want to just be his friend i wanted more i wanted him to love just as loved him but he saw me as just a friend or he didn't want to admit he was also in love with me because it was obvious we sync perfectly made the same gestures, always in each other arm we were like lover that don't make love . I was always a step behind when it came to letting him know how and what i felt about him. I wanted him to be the one to tell to say to me that he loved me and has always did. I wish i didn't wait for him i wish i told him maybe it wouldn't have took so long to be with him in first place. Through out our high school and collage years he was the guy every girl wanted to date he was the guy every wanted to give up their v card for and all the while i was the best friend of the guy i was in love with the one he tell all the nasty things he's been doing with them. As hard as it was for me i couldn't complain because we weren't dating even when i wanted it so bad. I always found myself wishing i was the girls on the other side. We shared everything about our life and even told each other thing we never told those we dated. I couldn't keep a stable relationship with any guy they all thought we hang out too much each other and i care for him more. They all left because they knew i was in love with him even when i tried to hide it always surfaced. My love life was a total mess and at first, it was really not a big deal because i thought with each man that come into my life a part of what i felt for him will fade away but it wasn't the case. I found myself not being about to love them enough or always comparing them with him that always led to the death of the relationship. I knew i had to let him know i was in love with him and i knew it was going ruin a our friendship and also his relationship. I hated myself because he was a nice guy but i wanted to know if i had a chance, if we loves me just as much as i loved him but he never told me he was too mad with me for what i did not until Akpe Osilama helped me unveil it. I kinda picked the worst time to let him know about my feeling because he was engaged and i made his fiancťe call it off. And for two years we didn't speak he told me he never wanted to see me again and that i was dead to him. I was once again alone with my feeling all my effort to restore what i broke was in vain. I was happy the wedding was called off but was not so much because i didn't get him instead he hated me for what i did. I was really really confused i wanted to stop loving i needed to get him off my mind and over. I was on that quest when i found Akpe Osilama on the Internet read about his work with some people and how they all got their heart desire. I contacted him with this email chiefpriestakpeosilamaspellcast AT yahoo DOT com in the standard email form off course that they left on the Internet he told me the spirit had already told him that i was going to contact him. I only told him about how i was in love with him and what happened when i told him about my feelings but he knew we've best friends since we were kids that i did not tell him he reveal something only yust and i Knew yeah that is his name. Akpe Osilama told me that yust was always in love me like i loved him but he was unaware of his feeling. I asked him to help with with an enchantment that will make him love me and spend the rest of his life with me. All he used for the process was the materials he asked me to provide and after one day he sent a package via courier service which i paid for with content based on the enchantment he had done for me. I did not pay him anything for what he did for he did not ask me for anything. I followed the instruction i was given and just like told me yust was my to love again and i was his to love just like i wanted. Everything happened like the movie only that it was not like it. I mean he was in another state but he came down to let me know he now knew he was in love with and he wanted to love and just love me. It was the best moment of my life i never felt happier than how i felt that day. Just for the record we have being together for a year and two months now and still strong i can even sense a proposer it was one of the thing Akpe Osilama told me will happen.
Aggie Ellstrom
Tue, Jul.7th 2015
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Your CommentsHow to get your Husband to desist from from womanizing When you are powerful There are lot of ways to achieve this mostly when your husband is the kind that go about cheating on you even with your knowledge. I know it hurts and most of us think is better to walk out but look when you are married to a wealthy or powerful man your options are not just as easy as walking out. Because in the long you have so much to loss so this is what i think its best to do. 1) If you know the mistress of your husband find her and sort thing out with her make her see why you want her to stay away for your husband. A a woman married to power or wealth resources are at your disposer and it is advisable to use them to your advantage. And please do not misunderstand me, do not go to the extreme or do something that can get you in trouble. What i really mean is try to buy the mistress off make her an offer she can't refuse. But note this she will refuse if your husband has already offered her something more valuable. It trust me i have been there and it sucks to know buy can get you everything. 2) As wife to a powerful and wealthy man dig a little dirt on his mistress and just as simple as it is you can blackmail her with it. I do not take this as a crime you only threatening to expose the bad thing she has done. This way can only be successful if your husband knows nothing about it and if he is the judgmental type and if not you are back to step zero. 3) This is the ultimate and the most successful with a 100 percent guarantee Spell. This was the only how i got get my husband to keep this business in check if you know what i mean. read this I wish i knew all along all those years about Obudun the Great spell caster maybe my life would not have been this way. My husband His womanizing behavior got him into a lot of trouble and if any of those stories where to hit the press it would have destroyed his life and this political career and probably landed him in jail. With all the advise form me and his advisories of his campaigning team it was still not enough to bring him to caution. I went to the extreme to make sure he stops willingly or unwillingly that is i meant with some of his lover and asked to pay them off but they were not ready to let go it. I think he offered them something more that money that even with the amount i offered them, they all refused and believe me it was very surprising and they will turn down a large amount of money. We my husband got to know about it he mad mad at me and gave all sort of threats. I was confused and his opposition were digging to find dirt on him and still was so convinced that they will not find anything but they did only with no evidence that was how lucky we were. Right then i took matters in my hand and contacted Obudun Magonata with the email address i saw on the internet i contacted him and told him what i want him to do for me to make my husband be faithful to me till our dying day and make all those people looking for how to bring down my husband stop. OK note my husband is a very honest man who would not hurt a fly he was just careless and always picked the wrong kinds of woman that get him in trouble. Obudun Magonata asked that i provide 4 kind of item me being so careful employed expert to help me get those materials mailed them over to him. I sent a total some of 3000 dollars when converting from Swedish Krona to American dollars. And it much much cheaper if i had asked him to get them for me. But whats done is done. Just after four day sent me a package, not telling its content but is totally harmless and told me how to make the spell effective. I did as he told me and in two my husband somehow magically broke tires with all the women he was involved with i don't know how it happen and those people trying to kill his political ambition stopped immediately. I wish i knew this Great man all along my life would have been perfect. His campaign team did not understand how i did it and what i did they were just happy all the worse is past. What wow me the most about Obudun Magonata was that the told me the out come of the election before the election date last years because all this happened last year and just what he said will happen really came to pass. And again i can't give full info because of security reasons. I little advise for those that are going to contact him via this email (spiritsofobudunmagonata@ (yahoo). com) rewrite to usual email format if you are asked for material to do the spell don't go about it yourself Because you will waste a lot time and money on it and get to see asking him to get them for you with the total cost you wire to him will save you a lot. You have nothing be be afraid you can trust him with anything Because all he does is help people no matter how hard it may be..
Hapreet Anderson
Sun, Apr.19th 2015
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Good day,I am on here to express my sincere gratitude to a spell caster introduced to me by my Uncle, Wow! i never thought there was any real spell caster out here that can help me in my problems both financial and emotionally until my uncle recommended a spell caster he has contacted and was satisfied with his services to me and i did the same and contacted HIGH PRIEST OZIGIDIDON, The World Greatest for his help and i was so amazed for his wonderful work and sincerely i tested him and i must confess with all sincerity that HIGH PRIEST OZIGIDIDONis real and his prophesies are so really and he do what he says he will do. He is the only true and real spell caster i know and i don't want folks out here to fall victims for those fake spell caster who impersonate the real ones, please make no mistake any further and don't get scammed contact HIGH PRIEST OZIGIDIDON the realest spell caster in the world for him to help you in whatever problem you are going through be it relationship problem or money problem or any other problem you might have and HIGH PRIEST OZIGIDIDON will help you one time. He helped me get back my wife whom have left me for another man for the past 3years, after i contacted HIGH PRIEST OZIGIDIDON, after he has prepared and cast the spell in one hour my ex wife started calling and begging that she have missed me and i was amazed. right now i am living happily and my family is now so strong and united. please feel free and contact HIGH PRIEST OZIGIDIDON on his personal email highpriestozigididon@gmail.com a word is enough for the wise, please friends make no mistake any further contact him now highpriestoziigididon@gmail.com HIGH PRIEST OZIGIDIDON thank you for your help. Your Comments
Hakan
Sat, Feb.14th 2015
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Your CommentsHello everyone, am Hakan Parmaksiz by name. I am proud to testify this testimony. I saw a post on how a lady got her husband back and i decided to try the spell caster that helped her because my relationship was crashing. although i never believed in spell work i reluctantly tried him because i was desperate but to my greatest surprise the spell caster Dr Ebakor helped me get my Girl friend back after 5 month of break up and my relationship is now perfect just as he promised my Girl friend now treats me like a Prince even when she had told me before she doesn't love me anymore. well, i cannot say much but if you are passing through difficulties in your relationship contact him on his email: (Doctorebakorspelltemple@hotmail.com) he is the only answer to relationship problems once again his email is (Doctorebakorspelltemple@hotmail.com)
dante meet
Mon, Feb.9th 2015
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Your CommentsMy name is dante meet, and I base in U.S.A...My life is back!!! After 2 years of Broken marriage, my husband left me with two kids . I felt like my life was about to end i almost committed suicide, i was emotionally down for a very long time. Thanks to a spell caster called Dr Jatto, which i met online. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet,I came across allot of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb,cure cancer,and other sickness, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and so on. i also come across one particular testimony,it was about a woman called luis francisca,she testified about how he brought back her Ex lover in less than 2 days, and at the end of her testimony she dropped Dr Jatto E-mail address. After reading all these,I decided to give it a try. I contacted him VIA Email and explained my problem to him. In just 48hours, my husband came back to me. We solved our issues, and we are even happier than before Dr Jatto, is really a gifted man and i will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man... If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster to solve all your problems for you. Try drjattosplltemple@gmail.com anytime, he might be the answer to your problems. Here's his Email drjattosplltemple@gmail.com OR CALL +2349035512062. 1. GETTING YOUR EX BACK 2. WINNING LOTTERIES. 3. CHILD BEARING. 4. BREAKING OF GENERATION COURSE. 5. GETTING OF JOB. 6. JOB PROMOTION. 7. MONEY SPELL. 8. SPIRITUAL PROTECTION. 9. HERBAL CARE. 10. BEAUTY SPELL.
magret dawson
Tue, Jan.6th 2015
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Good day.I just want to use this means to talk about a good news to the entire world on how i got my husband back.I was going crazy, mad and confuse. when my husband left me for another woman last month,But when i met a friend that introduce me to High priest ozigididon the great messenger to the oracle that he serve,I narrated my problem to High priest ozigididon about how my ex love left me and also how i needed to get a job in a dream company.He only said to me that i have come to the right place were i will be getting my heart desire without any side effect.He told me what i need to do,After it was been done,In the next 24 hours, My ex called me on the phone and was saying sorry for living me before now, my lovely husband called me to be pleading for forgiveness,I was called for interview in the company were i needed to work as a senior officer..I am so happy and overwhelmed that i have to tell this to the entire world to contact His highness High priest ozigididon at the following email address and get all your problem solve..No problem is too big for him to solve..Contact him direct on: highpriestoziigididon@gmail.com and get your problems solve like me.
sandra martins
Fri, Jul.18th 2014
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Rhody
Mon, Apr.14th 2014
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When the man I love broke up with me, my world fell apart. I had gone to several casters and I got no results. Until I found seraphintemple@gmail.com and gave another try to retrieve my lover and restore the passionate relationship I had with him. Iím glad I did all that he requested of me and trusted him. He performed a spiritual cleansing to banish negative energies that was fighting against our relationship and casted a love spell. After four days, the man I missed dearly started to call me and told me how much he really missed me and that he is sorry for leaving me in the cold. Help me to say Thank DR SERAPHIN of SERAPHINTEMPLE his Email address seraphintemple@gmail.com OR mobile number +2348050354815
Rhody
Thu, Apr.10th 2014
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Your CommentsWhen the man I love broke up with me, my world fell apart. I had gone to several casters and I got no results. Until I found seraphintemple@gmail.com and gave another try to retrieve my lover and restore the passionate relationship I had with him. Iím glad I did all that he requested of me and trusted him. He performed a spiritual cleansing to banish negative energies that was fighting against our relationship and casted a love spell. After four days, the man I missed dearly started to call me and told me how much he really missed me and that he is sorry for leaving me in the cold. Help me to say Thank DR SERAPHIN of SERAPHINTEMPLE his Email address seraphintemple@gmail.com OR mobile number +2348050354815
Rhody
Thu, Apr.10th 2014
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Your CommentsWhen the man I love broke up with me, my world fell apart. I had gone to several casters and I got no results. Until I found seraphintemple@gmail.com and gave another try to retrieve my lover and restore the passionate relationship I had with him. Iím glad I did all that he requested of me and trusted him. He performed a spiritual cleansing to banish negative energies that was fighting against our relationship and casted a love spell. After four days, the man I missed dearly started to call me and told me how much he really missed me and that he is sorry for leaving me in the cold. Help me to say Thank DR SERAPHIN of SERAPHINTEMPLE his Email address seraphintemple@gmail.com OR mobile number +2348050354815
franker
Mon, Mar.24th 2014
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Your Commentsi was married for five years with out any child,because of this my husband start acting very strange at home,coming home late and not spending time with me any more.So i became very sad and lost in life because my doctor told me there is no way for me to get pregnant this really make life so hard for me and my family.my sister in law told me about DR SERAPHIN from the Internet,how he has helped people with this similar problem that i am going through so i contacted him and explain to him.he cast a spell and it was a miracle three days later my husband can back to apologize for all he has done and told me he is fully ready to support me in any thing i want,few month later i got pregnant and gave birth to twins (girls) we now a happy family . Thanks to DR SERAPHIN for saving my relationship and for also saving others too. continue your good work, If you are interested to contact DR SERAPHIN for your solution to be solve his EMAIL is seraphintemple@gmail.com. or +2348050354815 for solution to your problem.
franker
Wed, Mar.19th 2014
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Your Commentsi was married for five years with out any child,because of this my husband start acting very strange at home,coming home late and not spending time with me any more.So i became very sad and lost in life because my doctor told me there is no way for me to get pregnant this really make life so hard for me and my family.my sister in law told me about DR SERAPHIN from the Internet,how he has helped people with this similar problem that i am going through so i contacted him and explain to him.he cast a spell and it was a miracle three days later my husband can back to apologize for all he has done and told me he is fully ready to support me in any thing i want,few month later i got pregnant and gave birth to twins (girls) we now a happy family . Thanks to DR SERAPHIN for saving my relationship and for also saving others too. continue your good work, If you are interested to contact DR SERAPHIN for your solution to be solve his EMAIL is seraphintemple@gmail.com. or +2348131258106 for solution to your problem.
franker
Sun, Mar.16th 2014
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Your Commentsi was married for five years with out any child,because of this my husband start acting very strange at home,coming home late and not spending time with me any more.So i became very sad and lost in life because my doctor told me there is no way for me to get pregnant this really make life so hard for me and my family.my sister in law told me about DR SERAPHIN from the Internet,how he has helped people with this similar problem that i am going through so i contacted him and explain to him.he cast a spell and it was a miracle three days later my husband can back to apologize for all he has done and told me he is fully ready to support me in any thing i want,few month later i got pregnant and gave birth to twins (girls) we now a happy family . Thanks to DR SERAPHIN for saving my relationship and for also saving others too. continue your good work, If you are interested to contact DR SERAPHIN for your solution to be solve his EMAIL is seraphintemple@gmail.com. or +2348131258106 for solution to your problem.
franker
Thu, Mar.13th 2014
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Your Commentsi was married for five years with out any child,because of this my husband start acting very strange at home,coming home late and not spending time with me any more.So i became very sad and lost in life because my doctor told me there is no way for me to get pregnant this really make life so hard for me and my family.my sister in law told me about DR SERAPHIN from the Internet,how he has helped people with this similar problem that i am going through so i contacted him and explain to him.he cast a spell and it was a miracle three days later my husband can back to apologize for all he has done and told me he is fully ready to support me in any thing i want,few month later i got pregnant and gave birth to twins (girls) we now a happy family . Thanks to DR SERAPHIN for saving my relationship and for also saving others too. continue your good work, If you are interested to contact DR SERAPHIN for your solution to be solve his EMAIL is seraphintemple@gmail.com. or +2348131258106 for solution to your problem.
franker
Fri, Mar.7th 2014
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Your Commentsi was married for five years with out any child,because of this my husband start acting very strange at home,coming home late and not spending time with me any more.So i became very sad and lost in life because my doctor told me there is no way for me to get pregnant this really make life so hard for me and my family.my sister in law told me about DR SERAPHIN from the Internet,how he has helped people with this similar problem that i am going through so i contacted him and explain to him.he cast a spell and it was a miracle three days later my husband can back to apologize for all he has done and told me he is fully ready to support me in any thing i want,few month later i got pregnant and gave birth to twins (girls) we now a happy family . Thanks to DR SERAPHIN for saving my relationship and for also saving others too. continue your good work, If you are interested to contact DR SERAPHIN for your solution to be solve his EMAIL is seraphintemple@gmail.com. or +2348131258106 for solution to your problem.
franker
Tue, Mar.4th 2014
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Your Commentsi was married for five years with out any child,because of this my husband start acting very strange at home,coming home late and not spending time with me any more.So i became very sad and lost in life because my doctor told me there is no way for me to get pregnant this really make life so hard for me and my family.my sister in law told me about DR SERAPHIN from the Internet,how he has helped people with this similar problem that i am going through so i contacted him and explain to him.he cast a spell and it was a miracle three days later my husband can back to apologize for all he has done and told me he is fully ready to support me in any thing i want,few month later i got pregnant and gave birth to twins (girls) we now a happy family
Rhody
Sat, Mar.1st 2014
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Your CommentsWhen the man I love broke up with me, my world fell apart. I had gone to several casters and I got no results. Until I found seraphintemple@gmail.com and gave another try to retrieve my lover and restore the passionate relationship I had with him. Iím glad I did all that he requested of me and trusted him. He performed a spiritual cleansing to banish negative energies that was fighting against our relationship and casted a love spell. After four days, the man I missed dearly started to call me and told me how much he really missed me and that he is sorry for leaving me in the cold. Help me to say Thank DR SERAPHIN of SERAPHINTEMPLE his Email address seraphintemple@gmail.com OR mobile number +2348131258106
Rhody
Sun, Feb.9th 2014
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Your CommentsWhen the man I love broke up with me, my world fell apart. I had gone to several casters and I got no results. Until I found seraphintemple@gmail.com and gave another try to retrieve my lover and restore the passionate relationship I had with him. Iím glad I did all that he requested of me and trusted him. He performed a spiritual cleansing to banish negative energies that was fighting against our relationship and casted a love spell. After four days, the man I missed dearly started to call me and told me how much he really missed me and that he is sorry for leaving me in the cold. Help me to say Thank DR SERAPHIN of SERAPHINTEMPLE his Email address seraphintemple@gmail.com OR mobile number +2348131258106
Rhody
Thu, Jan.30th 2014
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Tue, Jan.21st 2014
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Wed, Sep.11th 2013
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Your Comments the easy thing, as the girl/ woman if its appropriate? Some live with. Mother how just gives a mode but wants to be asked. Then there may be an uncle of other male family member that will be the one to actually give the blessing. It just easy to ask your girl because she may laugh or she may say yes and tell you who to present yourself to. Some places it is still a life altering moment. No blessing may means no marriage; unless the daughter is disowned by the family.
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Sat, Mar.9th 2013
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My parents don't approve of my boyfriend:( and he wants to ask but I don't want him to bc their opinion really does not matter to me. I'm sad about this and I don't know what to do when that day comes:( apart of me doesn't even want them at the wedding :((((
Jessica
Tue, Oct.9th 2012
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It depends on the age of the bride. What if her father is deceased?!
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Fri, Dec.2nd 2011
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Mr. Right
Fri, Dec.2nd 2011
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To the ladies that says we should not ask their father/parents first and it will stomp on their pride, F them! Think about it, how many more men has the balls to face the music and respectfully ask for their blessing before doing yer proposal. Screw yer pride, there's not even much men available nowadays and a hefty handful would even to this. Not to mention most freakin men nowadays become gay lovers.. Its about love chicas... not about you being a property.. get a life! :)
Kate
Thu, Nov.24th 2011
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I guess I'm out numbered. But I don't care. My FH and I were serious for a good long time, and were practical enough about traditions to openly talk about things. I told him a few things were non-negotable. 1)I don't like diamonds, never have and never will.(Other women do, that's fine) Give one to me and I say "no". I'm not wearing that. Ever. 2)I don't do traditional weddings, I know others do. If one gets planned I stay home. It will not be my wedding. 3) I am not a sack of potatoes and if you ask someone else if you can marry me before you ask me you will have wasted your time. We can talk to parents AFTER if you really want to go that route but unless you want to marry my father don't even think about it. I really do think that if I found out at a later time he had anyway it would break some fundamental trust I currently have. Not a good thing. I have zero tolerance for this particular tradition.
padat
Sun, Sep.25th 2011
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Your Comments i really love my boyfriend and want to marry him but l was asked to convice to a jurry in the court,six piont that really love my boyfriend,what are the points l have to specify to them
mariage
Sat, Jun.11th 2011
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Meghan
Tue, Feb.15th 2011
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I think it's a very respectful choice to ask the parents. I know my father would feel much more appreciated/respected if asked for my hand in marriage, and thus would give more respect. Same for my mother. The only time it's not appropriate is if the bride-to-be is not close to her parents. Every other situation, it's appropriate & preferred!
steve
Fri, Nov.12th 2010
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ive been together with my girlfriend nearly four years i want to ask for her parents permission when they first met me i wasnt what you would call son-in-law material had nothing goin for me didnt look after myself i smoked,had long hair hand tattos facial piercing well to cut a long story short i changed my life around now im reallly nervous about asking i gt told i need quite abt finances in my bank we want to get married in 2012 it would make my girlfriend really happy any advie
Michele
Tue, Nov.9th 2010
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If you are considering proposing marriage, you should have a good idea about what your girlfriend would prefer. If she is big in to traditions, then by all means ask. It is just a tradition and a sign of respect. It is very romantic. But if you aren't in to it and you she is not either, then skip it. But if you aren't sure at all and you don't want to ask, then play it safe and just do the formality. I help people propose for a living, trust me. www.theheartbandits.com
jessica
Tue, Oct.19th 2010
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I did not have a perfect relationship with my father when I was younger, though as I've gotten older I've started to really notice how much I want his approval and love all the memories we had together. I have met the man of my dreams. I want my boyfriend to talk to my father because we've already discussed marriage and life and kids and I obviously want to marry him. I don't need to be proposed to before he asks either, even though yes it's ultimately my decision to say yes, not my fathers. For me the talk isn't even about owning, or even permission. it's about love. it's about caring and respect. it's because i want my little girl to feel love from her father, and knowing my man will do this for me tells me that he will be a good father to our daughter. Favorite thing = happy family. And this is what my boyfriend said to me regarding this : "honey i want to talk to your father because i want to have him know that his little girl is safe with me. i'll hold on to her heart and protect it just as he has" And this is in no disregard of my mother. My mother is an incredibly strong woman, I am so connected with her. I don't want her to have a formal talk with my boyfriend like I want my boyfriend to have with my father, though she will 'approve' in a different way. By telling me. I connect with my Mom, boyfriend connects with my dad. People get upset- "oh the men ask each other for permission of course, men are evil, controlling, think women are property,etc." - ugh my goodness, yes some men are controlling and such, though some men have incredible hearts and it's really both parents who approve, not just the fathers. Men and women communicate in different styles though. Men are more confrontational and want to be talked to in a distinct conversation from the future son in law in some/many cases. The mom wants to approve as well. We're just discreet(?) about it. I feel like some feminists don't get that guys aren't being unfair when they want to engage in this sort of behavior, it is not a superior thing, they're just a more obvious blatant way of going about what is wanted and desired. Women talk talk talk about it oveR and ovER little by little lol. Say little things here and there that show 'liking' or 'disliking' of the boyfriend. .. i can write more though anyway... I am not even sure how my father would handle the conversation. He may even be surprised. I was a tomboy when I was younger and didn't always connect with him, though I know he feels now the connection I feel for him. I call him randomly just to say hi, I miss lunches with Dad from when I was a kid, and many things remind me of good times shared. Though it is not because he was a 'perfect' dad in order to have immense forever lasing love and memories. There were many times I didn't feel "loved" though I was young and didn't understand things. He has given me so much more than he had as a child. I am grateful for having a father who stayed in my life even though my parents divorced and I was a stuck up kid sometimes. My father stayed around, complained about child support sometimes but hey it's okay! Kids are expensive, and even though you love them they just drive you crazy sometimes. It's not a bad thing- don't take it as "my dad doesn't love me". It's just stresses of the world. Alright, enough talking about how great my Dad was, cause as much as he's "the best dad ever" he's just an ordinary guy, like all other guys who want a beautiful family too. Yah you big tough men! As much as you are the "men of the house" (in all the right ways_ you are the sentimental beings of nurture and warmth. Ying and yang find your twin flame.
Matt
Wed, Sep.22nd 2010
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My girlfriend is extremely close to her father, and he's very much the traditionalist, which I actually respect a lot. I'm on my way to ask for his blessing now. I think the most important thing is what you to-be-bride wants; she wants me to ask him before her, and I'm respecting her wishes. If she thought it was sexist, I wouldn't. End of story.
Chole
Tue, Aug.10th 2010
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My sister's fiance, who comes from a very traditional southern family, asked my for his blessing, in front of our whole immediate family, after he had already proposed to her. There was a pretty awkward silence afterward because: 1) Our father, while also very traditional, isn't as emotionally attached/engaged in our lives as our mother is, 2) Was confused why he wasn't asked before the proposal, and 3) Felt a little put on the spot that he was being asked in front all the members of our family, and felt funny he was the only one who was asked to bless their marriage. I think this article is very correct that above all else, even if you know the woman and her family very well, to ask your fiance-to-be what she and her family would prefer. This strategy just makes things easier and saves you and everybody else involved potential embarassment. And I'd also like to add that many Dads (and Moms) are can be a bit nervous too at the prospect of somebody tell them they want to marry their daughter, so please do it in person but in private (not in front of giggling younger siblings).
BB
Thu, Jul.22nd 2010
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My fiance's home town is over 2.5 hours away...just far enough to make it difficult to talk to her father without raising any suspisions. Her and I spend 95% of our free time together so disappearing would not have been easy. I got lucky, however, in that her dad came for a visit the weekend before I planned to propose. He was thrilled when I informed him of my plan. I didn't ask him for permission or a blessing as we're both grown men (i'm a little bit older than your average first timer) and professionals. However, I did want to hear his opinion and know how he felt about me joining myself with his daughter for life through marriage. According to my fiance, I earned a lot of bonus points that day and he's happy to have me as his future son-in-law. I don't see anything wrong with calling, but only as a last resort. I did not tell her mother but she knew anyway (mother's intuition and all). If you are on the fence about this topic I would recommend doing it. At the bare minimum you will get respect for doing so.
Tina
Fri, Jun.11th 2010
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I don't want my boyfriend to ask my dad's permission, that decision is mine not his. But I do feel that I need his blessing, and not just his, my mom's too. I agree that asking for a blessing is simply a sign of respect. It's like saying, "Hey, I care enough about you to know what you think. Your opinion may or may not affect my decision, but I'd at least like to hear it." And my family is all about respect, so much so that if my boyfriend didn't ask for a blessing, I think my family, especially my dad, would be hurt. I'm not choosing to do this because of religious beliefs, I'm not religious AT ALL. I'm doing it because I love my family, and I don't want to offend them by not asking. I can see why women are offended, and choose not to follow this tradition. They aren't wrong in their decision. It can be offensive if your husband and father are discussing your future without your say. I guess it just depends on you, your significant other, and your families.
Mark
Fri, Jun.4th 2010
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Okay here's the deal... something EVERYONE needs to understand. When asking for "blessing", you're not asking for permission. and with that said, 9 times out of 10, the prospective wife already has an idea that you're going to ask her if you have't already. That being said, for you women that say you'd be upset that your boyfriend would as your parents for thier BLESSING, but not permission, is kind of silly. as someone said earlier in this posting, .. it's a sign of respect. Showing that you care enough about the family union to say "Can I be your son?" I see absoluetly NOTHING wrong with that. I've said my piece.
Helen
Tue, May.11th 2010
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Joe, You find it hard to believe that some people could find this practice antiquated, and that some women could be offended? Believe it. I would have been livid if my husband had tried to discuss my future with my parents before he discussed it with me, and I am pretty sure my parents would have known that. They had not been involved in my decision making process for a number of years, and I had no intention that they become involved. Make sure you know what your girlfriend would want, before you worry about what her parents would like. Good luck for your impending proposal. Helen
Joe
Thu, Apr.29th 2010
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I find it hard to believe that people think it is antiquated to ask for a father's and/or mother's blessing in their future. What I find even harder to believe is that some women would actually be offended and mad. To her and other like her I say, relax a little bit. It is a sign of respect to the woman and her family. The fact that it was associated with the passing of property in the past is null. Those who still view it as that are the ones who feel like they are property; it is a reflection upon themselves. I could not imagine not asking and it's not something I am looking forward to. (about 2 weeks from now) My girlfriends father is a man of power and wealth and he has a high stress job and is not always in a good mood. More than that he's a ball buster. He certainly will not make it easy, but I'm almost certain he will say yes. I plan to ask both parents at dinner and I know her mom will appreciate that because we (her mom and I) have a good relationship. I want to have a shorter meeting on this occasion so I will pop-in on their dessert (wine) on their ritual Friday night out. That last detail is wholly suited to these two particular people. I can't say there is a right way and a wrong way, but I would never do it over the phone, no matter the distance. You only have to do it once. If I remember I will pop back on to let people know how it went.
Andrew
Thu, Apr.1st 2010
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My girlfriend's natural parents are both divorced and both re-married. She wants to walk down the aisle with her natural father who lives in another country but is very close to her natural mother who lives just around the corner. I'm planning on asking her natural father for his blessing and also her step-dad and mother, but who do I ask 1st? Also, do I ask for their blessing 1st and then pop the question or vice versa?
deepa
Wed, Mar.31st 2010
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i want idea and tips how to purpose a groom
Ben
Mon, Mar.15th 2010
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Well, I just asked my girlfriend to marry me, and had thought long and hard about whether or not to ask her father. I ended up not asking him, for a few reasons - he hasn't shown me anything but disrespect; he didn't ask his wife's father; I didn't want it to sound like he 'owned' her. I think respect is a two-way street, if he doesn't respect you beforehand he won't afterwards anyway. Predictably, he blew up and showed his control-freak colours.
steve v
Wed, Mar.3rd 2010
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Just asked my girlfriends parents for their blessings last week. Both are very happy for us and were appreciative of me asking. Her parents are divorced so I had to do this twice and was surprised that I actually had a bit of nerves leading up to it. All in all, I love my girlfriend and would have asked her to marry me regardless of what anybody thinks including her parents. However, it feels great knowing that the union will be surrounded with positive energy. If either one had a problem with it, I could always say that I did the right thing and that alone would let me spleep well at night. So go for it, remember you're marrying her but they will be a major part of your life. Do the right thing. Best wishes.
Valerie
Thu, Feb.18th 2010
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I can't imagine my boyfriend not asking! Reasons: 1) I want my mom to want him to be her son (yeah, I actually want to have the kind of marriage where he calls my mom mom and I call his parents mom and dad) 2) If he can't have one difficult conversation with my side of the family I fail to see how he can be with me for the rest of my life 3) If my family has some reason for thinking we wouldn't be good together I want to know BEFORE I say yes to a proposal! 4) I am hoping for my family to substantially subsidize the cost of the wedding :P
Julie
Mon, Feb.1st 2010
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I think this is slightly different from all the advice, but I've been with my boyfriend for four years and I'm basically expecting him to propose soon. I personally would be pretty upset if he asked my parents before me. I love and respect my parents, but feel that I am an adult and make my own decisions. I'm pretty sure my boyfriend knows this. My point--this is a personal thing! Talk about it with your girlfriend in general terms! If you don't know what she would want, maybe you shouldn't be proposing
Nathan
Sat, Jan.9th 2010
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I have a question, what if the girl's father has past away? Do I still ask for her mother's blessing?
SJA
Thu, Nov.12th 2009
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My girlfriend dad passed away about 6 years ago. Her mom is still alive and her older brother. niether one of us has ever been married before. We are in are late 30's.. should i still ask for here moms blessing? should i include her brother also? I'm a tradiational guy...
Dave
Thu, Oct.29th 2009
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I just did he asking yesterday... my problem was that her parents have remarried and her biological father is on the other side of the globe. Of course i rang her biological father, had a great chat with him, at the end of the conversation i told him the love and respect i have for his daughter and asked for his blessing, he was over the moon and could not stop saying how much he apprecieated me asking. Her step father, who she is close to and lives near us, i just rang up and asked if i could speak to him about somthing, i went around to his office and said similar to him also. It was the hardest thing i have ever had to do in my life!!! but god it feels good to know that you have treated her family with respect and trust. My advice is, if the father is approachalbe and you know him well, ask just him, if you don't know him well enough or you don't get along, still have the respect to ask and get her mother involved as well... Good luck!!!
Jay
Tue, Oct.27th 2009
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So i have an issue. I want to ask both of my girlfriend's parents for their blessing. She is very close to both of them but they are divorced and not on good terms so bringing them together is out of the question. I really would like to ask her father first because i think man to man, it's the best thing to do. I have not spent a great amount of time with him but I believe he respects me and i respect him. I have spent a little more time with her mother and i am pretty sure she would be happy. The question is, how should I approach her father? I want to do this in person, but not with my girlfriend around. The problem with her mother is that she would probably be so excited that I'm afraid she would accidently spill the beans. Sorry I am rambling on and on but I am so nervous and anxious about this I just want to do it right. Thanks.
chantel
Wed, Oct.14th 2009
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if the parents of your bride to be died then the next thing is to ask her siblings for her hand in marriage.
Mike
Wed, Sep.2nd 2009
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My girl is close to her parents. They talk everyday on the phone at least once. I am afraid that her Mom, and sister, will not be able to keep it a secret long enough for me to ask. It will be splattered all over facebook! I know my girl definitely wants me to ask her fathers blessing, but I am torn on waiting till after I propose, or maybe the moment before. But what if they dont answer or she catches me on the phone, or they need some time to think about it etc?? Why is "the talk" nerve racking? Putting my self in the fathers shoes....I wouldnt care how great the guy is marrying my daughter, I would have to entertain myself and make him sweat a bit!
frank
Wed, Jul.29th 2009
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My girlfriends parents are in mexico for the whole summer and i originally was going to ask her parents when they got back but.. my girlfriend surprised me with a trip at the end of summer and I want to make it special for us and ask her then. What would be the best way to ask her parents by webcam? or should i just wait till they get back? I really want to do it on the trip though.thanks.
Greg
Sat, Jul.4th 2009
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My Girlfriends parents are lesbians. How do i handle this little hurdle.
scared
Mon, Jun.22nd 2009
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i want to ask my parteners over protecive parents, but there is health issues, they know that i can deal with this as im a nurse. but im worried they'll say no, any advice
mikey's wife
Thu, May.28th 2009
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Your Comments: I am married to a guy known among his friends as "Mikey." He proposed one night, without having fully prepared or planned to do it then. So he called my parents who lived 800 miles from us on the phone. My dad answered the phone, and he said,"Mr. Jones, this is Mike Smith," to which my dad answered, "Mike Smith, Mike Smith. Do I know you?" After a few agonizing moments, he realized who it was and said, "I'm glad you're not going by Mikey any more!" Anyway, that broke the ice, everyone was happy, and we just celebrated our 19th anniversary. No hard feelings for calling right afterwards to ask for the blessing.
Liz
Sun, May.17th 2009
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In response to Heather - if my parents knew I was about to be engaged before I did, I would be *furious*. Blessings can be asked for later. But then, I'm not the type to hire a wedding planner either.
ROBERT
Mon, Mar.30th 2009
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My scenario... there is no future "father-in-law," only a future "mother-in-law." I'd like to show respect and get her blessing. However, since my girlfriend & her mother are so close, I am concerned that her mothrer may not be able to keep the secret. I'm considering waiting until the day of the proposal to ask her mother, but her mother and I may not be alone long enough for me to inquire. Any thoughts or suggestions???
Craig
Fri, Mar.27th 2009
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ok i got a question. i love my girlfriend Lorna so much. and i'm here in landstuhl germany because i got hurt in iraq. well i want to ask her to marry me, but the only way i can do that is through internet phone calls. i would like to wait in person but i just can't wait anymore. is it ok to ask her dad like this??
john
Wed, Mar.18th 2009
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What if my Girlfriends parents are both Deceased. Who Do I ask?
Heather
Thu, Feb.26th 2009
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I am a wedding/ proposal planner and not once have I come across a bride who was not happy that her fiance asked her parents first. If their fiance didn't, most of my brides secretly vent how they wish their fiance would have. You cannot go wrong by asking for their blessing. It is not because your gf is a piece of property but that you are illustrating you respect for her and her family.
Rigger In Love
Wed, Feb.11th 2009
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This is for MWC... I did not know my girlfriends parents, but I knew that me being a man of chivalry and tradition, the parents blessing was a must. I told her I wanted to go to her home town to meet with her parents, with my secret intent to pose the question. They did not know me before hand, only what she had talked of me. I waited for her to go to sleep and then posed the question after knowing her rents for only 2 days! They were ecstatic and her father's response, "You did the right thing, what I'd have done, you asked me first, thank you for the respect, you have my blessing." I suggest you do it in person, it is a much more powerful approach
Prince alex
Sun, Feb.1st 2009
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Hi everyone... Let me tell you my experience. I was in love with a girl in my college.An year ago when i finished my studies i decided to marry her. First i called her dad and told him, that i love his daughter, i want to marry her.i asked him one year time for me to find a job in my field.That time he said he will wait for my call..... Now i got a good job and i called him. he said he was glad that i kept my word.now our marriage is fixd for this august 2009. my openion is, Get the blessing from elders........ then only we can have a peaceful life
Maria
Fri, Jan.23rd 2009
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I am a traditional person in a NON-TRADITIONAL lifestyle (I am a lesbian) I am the butch in the relationship (not that there always has to be a butch and femme) I am about to ask my Girlfriend in the next few months to marry me...I am also planning before asking her to talk to her parents and ask for their blessing! I believe in asking the parents for their blessing and letting them know how much their daughter is loved and cherished and will be for the rest of her life!
Grumpy Groom
Wed, Jan.21st 2009
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My fiancee didn't pressure me to ask her parents' permission first. But I did anyway, out of respect. It turns out that I didn't get a chance to ask her dad in person but I left him a voicemail. He told me that he really appreciated the courtesy. So even though we didn't speak directly, I'm still glad that I made the effort to give him a phone call.
Jason
Thu, Jan.15th 2009
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I find that the female wants to be able to suprise her mother with the new great news. Fathers can usually hold it in.
MWC
Thu, Jan.8th 2009
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Ok I have two questions/comments.... 1 - For those of you who included the mother, was she able to keep the surprise, or did she spill the beans? 2 - How to handle setting up a face to face meeting if you are not close to her parents? Or if distance is an issue, is the phone an alternative?
TO AMBER
Thu, Jan.8th 2009
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You would be offended???? Wow!! You really need to get a life, if you are offended by that...You should be proud that your boyfriend (if you even have one) faced the fire and had that very hard conversation with your parents...It's not that you are being passed around, it's simply a matter of a simple formality...do I have your blessing sir? YES YOU DO, well...let's have a wedding then! (IF SHE SAYS YES, AND IS NOT OFFENDED BY THIS)
Shakera
Mon, Jan.5th 2009
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I would be offended and would not get married without my fiance asking my parents for their blessing. My family is extremely traditional and I like it that wat
Amber
Thu, Nov.27th 2008
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I would be offended if my boyfriend asked my father or parents for permission to marry me becasue it is so antiquated. I make my own decisions and am not property being passed around. And I'm not a "princess" and think it's revolting that grown women think they should be put up on some throne and served by someone who should be their partner not their servant. Women who go into marriage with that expectation are going to be very disappointed. I see no point in going to the parents either to let them know ahead of time or getting their blessing. What if they say no? Do you still get married? Probably, so what was the point?
Chris
Mon, Nov.10th 2008
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Well I just asked my girlfriend to marry me two days ago, and yes I asked "permission" I put it in quotes due to the wording I used, blessing. And if you think your going up to a very anal retentive father, who will verbally murder you, then I suggest you ask the mom to come along as well, they typically will run interference for you without knowing it since they know his moods and tells better than you. As for the guy asking her father over the phone, that probably wasnt the best idea to begin with (asking over the phone), take a shot, calm down, everything will be fine and ask in person.
Carole
Thu, Nov.6th 2008
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As the mother of the groom, I think it's a good idea. My husband did not talk to my father about his intentions -- and my Dad's been upset about it for decades. Words? "I love your daughter very much. I want her to be my wife. The official marriage proposal has not happened yet. I just wanted you to be one of the first to know how I feel." See? You're not asking for his permission or blessing. Trust me, your joint engagement announcement will go much more happily when the parents know it's coming. Getting blindsided is not good.
rat!!!
Mon, Oct.27th 2008
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sorry i spelled my name wrong. the name is Ray. see how nervous i am about this
Rat
Mon, Oct.27th 2008
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My girlfriend is Japanese. she lives in Tokyo. I am in the military and i will be going to Japan next month to see her parents and ask for her hand in marriage. THe thing is that they dont know english so we thought it would be a good idea to wright a letter for the both of them to read i will mail the letter to her and she will translate it in japanese for me. is that a good idea? i dont see any other option. i cant learn japanese in 3 weeks. but if i had to then damnit i will!!
Mike
Sat, Sep.27th 2008
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I debated whether or not to ask my girlfriend's father. I wa s like "I don't ned his stinkin permission" Then she conveyed that she thought maybe I should ask. What it ultimately came down to in my mind was this: 1-If she wants me to and thinks it would be good for us and good in his eyes...why not? 2-If he is planning to spend a big chunk of change onm our wedding, I had better give him the heads up so he can get some finances in order. About 6 weekd before I planned to propose, I asked him to meet me for dinner and rather than asking permission, I just explained how much I loved his daughter and let him know that I intended to ask her to marry me in the near future. He loved it and was very happy that I went to the effort of that. He gave some great advice and we had a good dinner and a good talk. And when I told her about it later, she loved it. It was win win win. I highly recommend it!
Fred
Wed, Aug.13th 2008
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I really couldn't imagine not asking, in my case. I told him my plans for the coming weekend (over the phone) and it was dead silence. He's a very wealthy man (extremely) and obviously has trust issues. He said he's not surprised however is not pleased. "What?! I didn't get that." Most jaw dropping speechless uncomfortable moment of all time, considering we have had dinner together 100 times and been on vacations together. Humiliating, sad, and embarrassing. F him.
jac
Sun, Jul.27th 2008
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i am going to ask my girlfriend to marry me in april next year when we are on holiday . this gives me plenty of time so that i can have our house ready and we will be living in it . it also gives me time to save you some more money before i do ask her that i can give her the wedding see dreams of . i am half way there now with the ring but want to ask for the blessing of her mum and dad but when is the best time to ask them sooner or later to the time . have any of you got any advise thanks
Laura
Mon, Jul.21st 2008
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My boyfriend and I went to our parents together. I would not have wanted him asking my parents' permission. I was an adult; I made that decision for myself. However, I do love and respect my parents, as he does his, so we went to each set of parents and *as a couple* and told them we'd decided to get married, and hoped we had their blessing. (We were going to do it regardless, of course. We just didn't say that bit out loud...) They were all delighted, and pleased at how we'd handled it. Of course, we were also paying for our own wedding, so we didn't have to tiptoe through those particular politics. That's okay. Me, I'd prefer to be an independent adult.
Lisa
Wed, Jul.16th 2008
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Guys, As a woman, without a doubt, if you are debating whether or not to ask, please do. It shows respect not only to our family, but to us, as your brides-to-be as well. It shows that you care enough about the important people in our lives to incorporate them in this big decision. Jenna Bush, the president's daughter, her fiancee actually asked her twin sister as well. We'll find it so sweet that you're treating us like the princess you think we are.
Jason
Tue, Apr.8th 2008
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i think if you do it you will show that you respect the father, which you will need after you get married and would like to borrow his porsche or hopefully get a nice wedding present.
Patrick
Wed, Feb.6th 2008
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I called my future in-laws and met with them in private. I discussed it with both of them, which I really suggest doing, as it includes her mother in the process. Everything went just fine, and her mom even cried a little. However, I really suggest you know the answer going into this, just like knowing the answer your special girl will give too. I absolutely don't regret asking their blessing in advance.

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