After reading this list of groomsman duties, you will see that being a groomsman is no laughing matter. This is one wedding where you can't just slack off and party down with all the single girls the whole time(although you definitely might meet someone!)

You have a real role to play, so take it seriously. You should also know that your job as a groomsman will also require a monetary commitment.

You will be required to pay for your tuxedo rental, travel expenses, hotel accommodations and possibly even wedding day transportation. You will also be expected to contribute to the cost of organizing the bachelor party. And, of course, you must not forget the gift for the newlyweds.

If you don't think you are up for the challenge of being a groomsman or if you don't think you can afford it, then do the groom a favor and graciously decline his offer to have you in his wedding party. He'll appreciate your honesty. Nothing is worse than a great buddy who: 1) can't actually commit, 2) who commits but then pulls out, or 3) forgets to get fitted for his tux, shows up late or forgets the details. And hey, we can't blame you - a groomsman is a bit of a prop. You may be focused on hanging out with your other buddies at the wedding. But at least be a good prop!

Before you decide to be part of the wedding, you may first wish to peruse this list of duties.

Months before the wedding

• Get fitted for your tuxedo
• Help the groom and best man with their tasks
• Help the best man organize the bachelor party
• Start thinking about your wedding speech
  

Days before the wedding

• If you are making a wedding speech, have you honed it to perfection?
• Help set up and clean up after the bachelor party, rehearsal dinner and, of course, the wedding
• Pick up your tuxedo on time and take care of any issues yourself
• Help decorate the ceremony venue (e.g., church or synagogue)
• Attend the rehearsal and the rehearsal dinner
• Be supportive - the groom needs you!

Wedding day

• Get ready and follow the itinerary that the groom has given you – be on time for everything!
• Be supportive - the groom needs you!
• Greet and seat guests at the ceremony
• Escort the mother of the groom to her seat
• Escort the mother of the bride to her seat
• Escort a bridesmaid down the aisle
• Attend the photography sessions before, during and after the wedding ceremony
• Sit at the head table during the reception
• Dance with a bridesmaid at the reception
• At the end of the reception, help clean up and possibly attend to the gifts
• Return your tuxedo

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