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[Page 1 of 3]![]() While you've been busy helping your fiancée pick out invitations, reception music and seating charts, your groomsmen have been getting fitted for tuxedos, writing speeches and planning a bachelor party. To show your groomsmen how much you appreciate their help (and friendship), it's customary to give each of them a gift. Luckily for you, we've compiled a list of gift suggestions that's guaranteed to help you find the perfect gift for any groomsman. How much to spend While the answer on how much to spend depends largely on your budget, generally a minimum of $30 per groomsman is appropriate, with potentially something extra for the best man. That said, $30 is a minimum, and you're likely to spend a bit more. "While my fiancée thought $40 pens were a nice touch," notes recent groom Craig Wright, 29 from Toronto, Ontario, "my gut told me that I was being a bit cheap. The pens were great, but we should have done better." GroomGroove.com firmly believes it's better to err on the side of caution and spend a bit more. These are your best buddies, after all, and you probably haven't bought them a "serious" gift, ever. Now's your chance to say thanks. Ready to wear A popular idea for some grooms is to buy a clothing accessory that matches the tuxedo that will be worn on the wedding day. All of the following options are great not only because they can be used more than once, but also because it ensures your buddies will look almost as good as you do on the big day. Cuff links : Whether your buddy is a Dapper Dan or not, every guy needs a pair of cuff links for those special occasions. Dress Shirt: If you are renting tuxedos, there is no reason to wear the hyper-starched and 20% cotton shirt that is provided in the package. Additionally, you could simply present a well-made dress shirt as the gift itself. Ask the guys for their (predicted) measurements and get them a nice dress shirt. It need not necessarily be a tuxedo shirt (so long as vests are worn). For long lasting quality, have bespoke shirts made through Michael Andrews Bespoke. Many shirt makers have easy-to-follow guides that describe how to take the necessary measurements. "The measuring process is easier than most people think," reports Michael Mantegna, CEO of Michael Andrews Bespoke, "and nothing compares to the look and feel of a well-crafted custom shirt." Wristwatch : There's nothing more functional than a time piece that gets them to the church on time. You are likely to spend at least $100 to $150 on such a watch, but it will be useful for them. Avoid having it engraved - just a nice watch will do. If your groomsmen already have wristwatches or have more expensive tastes, read on. Executive Pen: While you don't need to shell out for a Montblanc, you can purchase well crafted pens from New York purveyor, Joon Pens, without breaking the bank. Look for Pelikan or Lamy. These need not be fountain pens (which are nice, but often impractical) but can be rollerball pens. Anyone will tell you a fancy pen is better than those 10 cent ballpoints the office provides. Engraved Money Clip: Nobody likes losing money, nor carrying around a man-purse. This is a perfect alternative to more expensive items. article continues...[Page 1 of 3]
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Three guys who love football. Not the outdoors guys, and not drinkers. Love gadgets. Any ideas?
Rob
I got all of my guys personalized bottles of Makers Mark, along with a pair of engraved double old-fashioned glasses with their monogram.. I think they will like the gift a lot.
john love
i got all my groomsmen a new cadi only 84575 each
wedding registry
My husband got his groomsmen engraved cuff links. They looked amazing and the guys really liked them!
-Kelly
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kristina
not reallly helpful
TK
I have my budget figured out and doing personalized flask sets for each of my 6 groomsmen. They're 65 a piece which I think is reasonable without being cheap. I was also going to do a small bottle of Jack for each of them. My problem is what is appropriate for the best man. I'm assuming I should, and I want to do something extra for him but I'm not sure what is overboard and what is lame. Any ideas?
Treadstone
I found Scotty Cameron putters for around $100/each - '09 model but I think the guys will like them...they all golf, some better than other, I also got monogrammed golf balls $20/dozen...or do I go with a driver that received so-so reviews??
JM
i wanted to do something fun for them so I got caricatures from giveacaricature.com of me and all the guys. we all are big baseball fans so i put us on a baseball field and included some inside jokes for the guys. i think its a cool idea but kinda expensive
Anny
i got all the male members of my wedding party a pair of wedding cufflinks from http://www.groomsstand.com/
Adam
not alot of ideas here but I have a bestman that quit smoking, doesn't drink, isn't out doors kinda guy and just likes to stay home and take care of his family. Unique gift idea was a personalized bbq searer - about $40-60 with shipping. FYI
Your Comments you people are out of control....
Lisa
I have been in several weddings and I would say that the bride has usually spent around $25-$30 on our gifts. It depends on the budget of your wedding. Your attendants should be honored to be a pat of your day, the gift is not to "pay them back" for what they've spent, it's just to show that you appreciate them. If you are paying for your own wedding and having to cut out things like extra decorations or the cake then spending $100 on each attendant (for us that would be over $1000!!!... more than my wedding dress!) is pretty impossible. Those of you calling the others cheap must not be footing the bill for the wedding!
simon
i got all the male members of my wedding party a pair of wedding cufflinks from http://www.weddingcufflinks.net
Bob
I went with custom oakley sunglasses. You can get there name or nickname scripted on the lens and pick whatever colour and lens you want as well. Perfect for our beach wedding. Cost anywhere from $150-$550.
Kevin
You guys are cheap sons of a bitches...This is the most important day of your LIFE...most likely. You have these guys standing next to you to show what they mean to you. How can you put a dollar amount on them. On the lower end $100 is sufficient...If $$ is NOT a huge problem a the time, I would say $500 a piece. Or adjust accordingly: $800-$1000 should be the max for gifts for the BEST males in your life!
groom again
i forgot about the groomsmen gifts, and so we bought 4 of them at the last minute, ended up costing $400 and messed up our budget. Wife to blame!! :)
Chewbaca
All I know is, My wedding is about %98 up to my bride.(minus the bill) Doing something extra cool for the boys is necessary. Maybe spend as much as it took for them to rent a tux.
Sandy
My financee got Yankee Stadium Cufflinks as gifts for his best man from www.groomsmengift.com - a bit pricey, but I think they make unique best man gifts
brett
I spent about $430 on gifts from groomsmen.com and the guys loved the pub signs. I'm still on the lookout for something cool for a gift for the best man...the hunt continuess....
Chris N
British Bill is a Wank! This site is excellent! Thanks and keep up the good work.
D-Hart
I ended up making my groomsmen all cornhole sets, and painted personalized things on them. They all like them and the plus is wherever I go know I can have a cold brew and play some bags.
british bill
what s sh1t site. about as much use as t1ts on a fish. f*cking bobbins
I'm a female best 'person' for my parents next month and i have to say that i think everyone has lost sight of what a wedding is! Surely, it is about the two people getting married and not about what everyone else is going to recieve! I personally don't expect to gain anything from the groom, and if your groomsmen are as good friends as everyone seems to mention, then it should be an honour for them to be asked to stand next to their mate on the most important day of their lives. A token of appreciation for thier support shouldn't cost a fortune if you know them well enough, and if you're paniking about how much to spend and what to buythen maybe you aren't doing it for the right reasons.
ahmed
shit web site
Harry
I haven't read all of these so I am not sure it was said yet. I got my groomsmen engraved pocket knives. Each knife was about $25. They seemes to enjoy them as they are almost all outdoors guys. I also got them their favorite 6 pack to go with that! It showed that I really knew them and their tastes!
kevin
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rrrRyan
dear annoyed - there are about 3 pages of gift ideas.
Annoyed
Is it just me, or would most people actually expect to find a list of common gifts for the groomsmen, best man, and bride posted here. Not just somebody telling you that you should buy them gifts. This isn't very helpful at all, especially if you are looking for ideaS for more traditional gifts.
This guy
Dude, it's your own wedding. I know there are tons of other expenses but they are your closest friends to watch out for you. Spend anything you can. I am takin each of my four groomsman skydiving!!!
billy
Your Comments
your best bet is to find a way to make some more money. start gambling excessively and come up with some cash for gifts. thats what I did. I stole the get wet girls dollar bills. I had them turn the lights off when they were dancing and sent my 5 year old cousin around collecting tips. little did they know the tips went to me.....
sad
to 'don't' I think your loseing sight of what the day is about, they are your best friends witnessing one of the most important steps of your life..they are not just "standing up there"
Don't forget guys it's the thought that counts! Is is not a contest on how is spent on the gift.
RG
I also see that the same site has a link to www.giveashare.com, which is the stock idea that Ron mentioned - might be a little less pricey than the caricature idea.
RG
Has any one used www.giveacaricature.com for their groomsman gifts? Seems like a great idea, but maybe a little pricey?
AH
Being a Best Man twice, I've gotten one kick arse gift and one that was practical. The one that was kick arse was a stainless steel flask with my name engraved. Funny thing was, we had gotten the groom a flask of his own for before the wedding.
The practical gift was a gift card to Wawa (convience stores) bought me pleanty of coffee in the morning which also worked.
Cbert71
I took a tip from a friend and went with monogrammed embroidered Cooler Chairs. Down here in New Orleans, it's a perfect compliment to JazzFest, tailgating, fishing, etc.... and not to plug, but mygroomsmengifts.com had them to me in less than a week!
The gifts are not what is inportant!
hal
Andrew I think you gotta get gifts for all of them but man that's a whole lot of people
Andrew
Here's a tricky one: There will be six guys on my side of the aisle, but one of them is my fiancee's friend. Also, my two sisters are bridesmaids. Do I have to get gifts for them? And what about the groomsman who's not my friend? And, for the love of God, how much do I spend on all of them? $500 is mighty steep, or $700 if you count my sisters- $800 if I'm to spend the same on her friend.
One of my buddies did custom made glass beer steins. I thought it was thoughtful AND useful.
Tim
As a guy who's going to be graduating from college very shortly before being married, spending $100 on a gift for my groomsmen is just not practical right now. I'd love to do it, but I'd like to see some creative gift ideas around $50...now there's a challenge! If you have the money, these ideas are pretty nice.
ron
The most original gift is definitely the stock idea.
ben
to the last poster - dude they are doing more than standing up there - they've been your buddies for years! Nobody said you needed to have 5 groomsmen. adjust as necessary.
don't
$100 is steep. $500 dollars on gifts for 5 guys. Thats a lot. Especially when some are not really doing anything but standing up there.
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