Sometimes, guys can rationalize sexual deception with the logic that if she doesn't find out, then she won't get hurt. Consider a scenario in which you would always get caught cheating. Would you still do it? We thought not.

Finally, if you think your wife can't tell, you're dead wrong. It's not the smell of perfume or mysterious panties appearing in the wash - it's that look in your eye or subtle behaviors over time that tell the tale!

Know Your History

Have you cheated on a girlfriend before? If you have this history, there's a greater likelihood that you'll do it again. Figure out how it happened in the first place and don't repeat it. Easier said than done, grooms will say. However, if you examine your past motives, you can look for those as warning signs in the future. Be more mindful of your reasons for cheating, and you'll be better equipped to handle the situation where you are married and the stakes are much higher.  

Look on the Bright Side

You, Groom, are now the Mayor of Monogamyville. Congratulations, you've done it. You're at peace with your decision and we commend you for it. Now, for the good stuff. In this relationship, you will be closer and more intimate with your wife than you've ever been with a woman before her. This comfort level gives you greater freedom and openness - both in and out of the bedroom.   Explore! Have fun! You have a lifetime of sexual intercourse to look forward to. That's never a bad thing. While the thrill of the hunt is fun, every guy knows that you may often come up empty-handed. A recent study showed that married couples have sex at least once per week, with an average of 98 times per year. This contrasts with singles, who are having sex an average 49 times per year.

So, when you hear the dreaded phrase "major commitment", don't get bogged down in all the possible negative connotations. Monogamy shouldn't be a dirty word. If you love your wife and value your future together, then you'll never want to do anything to jeopardize either one. When you become at peace with that idea, marriage becomes a beautiful thing; you'll have better sex, and more often, than you ever did before.

 

 

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